Soldato
From a man to a man, you're good looking.
Ditch the sunglasses and smile a bit more...
Ditch the sunglasses and smile a bit more...
Dating - why must it be so hard...
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"please do not photoshop" is just asking for trouble 
Theres lots of events/club/hobby type places that will let you come along one time to see what its like, at which point see if theres anyone you might be interested in, if not dont go back.
Theres lots of events/club/hobby type places that will let you come along one time to see what its like, at which point see if theres anyone you might be interested in, if not dont go back.
Soldato
Pretend you're a black rapstar and make them your hoes, they like confidence and it's fun.
Soldato
Well in a totally non gay way - you aren't bad looking.
God you have no idea how hard it was to say that ^^^. You can't ever make "you aren't bad looking" sound not gay when you're saying it to a dude.
God you have no idea how hard it was to say that ^^^. You can't ever make "you aren't bad looking" sound not gay when you're saying it to a dude.
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I signed onto datingdirect.com last year, more for a laugh than anything, as some of the profiles looked fairly tasty when doing a free search.
Chatted to a few, most of which were very very weird. Met up with one or two, both of which were nice girls but too shy and didnt have much sex appeal.
After about 2 months i couldnt be arsed with it any more, it really is much easier meeting women in real life ive decided. Current girlfriend with whom its getting to full on "relatonship" status i met at a bar buying a drink purely by chance - so you never know.
Chatted to a few, most of which were very very weird. Met up with one or two, both of which were nice girls but too shy and didnt have much sex appeal.
After about 2 months i couldnt be arsed with it any more, it really is much easier meeting women in real life ive decided. Current girlfriend with whom its getting to full on "relatonship" status i met at a bar buying a drink purely by chance - so you never know.
Soldato
You need one of these:
http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/MensWhisperin...goryZ313QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem
http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/MensWhisperin...goryZ313QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem
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I'd hit that - have had worse.
Soldato
Although I like chocolate, I'm still scared to use them as I feel with the hot sun becoming more and more frequent I may be susceptible to melting O_O
Soldato
Rich_L is a damn Genius
Soldato
Nar, he needs a suit. Go Matrix style, all mysterious etc.
Soldato
All you doubters 
It can work - I'm sure there are others on here who've met someone special (and not that kind of special!) either online or through a dating website. I can't be the only one
edit: and this was on DatingDirect......yes, I did bump into a few really strange ones, but I went out with a fair few before I found the one I'm with
It can work - I'm sure there are others on here who've met someone special (and not that kind of special!) either online or through a dating website. I can't be the only one
edit: and this was on DatingDirect......yes, I did bump into a few really strange ones, but I went out with a fair few before I found the one I'm with
Cheers. I know its not comfortable for guys to say that guys are good looking, as I’ve said. I've had a lot of comments saying I'm not bad looking. In fact my pictures aren't that good, I look much better in person, one date said she was pleasantly surprised, but still didn't want to progress past a second date.. 
Bluetonic, I might try another dating site. Still quite jaded, I'm confident, easy going but no push over, and know what I want - its just something I'm not doing or am doing that just means its not working for me.
I dunno… Why must everyone feel a compelling need to be with someone..?? I know, I’m just the same, I lament not having someone to share my life with..
Still, you've all cheered me up, I thank you all for that, if nothing else.
Bluetonic, I might try another dating site. Still quite jaded, I'm confident, easy going but no push over, and know what I want - its just something I'm not doing or am doing that just means its not working for me.
I dunno… Why must everyone feel a compelling need to be with someone..?? I know, I’m just the same, I lament not having someone to share my life with..
Still, you've all cheered me up, I thank you all for that, if nothing else.
Rich_L is a damn Genius
hey, I said no to photoshops.. I've only got black, erm and black tops..!! Shirts, t-shirts, fashion tops in black, some have white motos on them, got a lot of blue jeans.. !! Love wearing black, and blue jeans. Black shoes, or black trainers.
I have some grey sweeters, thin summer type, v necks etc.... Pinstripe black shirts for clubbing etc when I do go.. I've been told I dress smart, even had girls say I look sharp, smell nice and look good..!! Erm... Hmm... Attitude problem?
Although, Im only 21 and still at University i've found more often than not its always down to if you're good looking or not. It's more about your personality especially the how confident and funny you can. Also suprising some of my mates who are not the best looking guys in the world but are what is seen to be fashionable with the long messy hair find remarkable success catching girls.
Soldato
You need Trinny and Susanna. Ok the pic looks very casual but I wouldn't wear that to a date!
maybe grow the hair a bit and get a good style, some smart evening wear and a sun tan may also help.
maybe grow the hair a bit and get a good style, some smart evening wear and a sun tan may also help.
Oh no I agree. That top is rubbish. Its actually something I wear around the house.. Also, the picture seems to be over exposed, so I look very pale. As I said, my hair is also a much darker blond, its not the best picture....
Dunno about growing the hair out, I must admit I like the ease of keeping short hair. Might speak to the stylist when I'm next having my hair cut...