Debt consolidation loans.

Sweetloaf · 19 May 2009 at 12:15

LordSplodge said:
Also a but of advice (in hindsight for the OP but useful for others) - Do not take out any debt (loans, credit agreements, higher purchases et al) in your name if they are not for you.

That's not always an option, no matter how I feel about my wife, she is going to be looking after OUR children, I'd rather the **** landed on me than them, who caused the problem is irrelevant, she has no means to sort it out.

wordy · 19 May 2009 at 12:23

Sweetloaf said:
That's not always an option, no matter how I feel about my wife, she is going to be looking after OUR children, I'd rather the **** landed on me than them, who caused the problem is irrelevant, she has no means to sort it out.

Wow, sounds heavy. I admire your responsibility, good luck!

ZXSpectrum · 19 May 2009 at 13:00

+ 1 for CCCS, very helpfull people..

Solari · 19 May 2009 at 13:24

If the other party has no means to sort it out, shouldn't she just declare bankruptcy, saving you a packet.... This seems a bit OTT and while your approach is admirable, if it were me I'd not be so keen to load myself up with such a massive debt

Hatter The Mad · 19 May 2009 at 13:25

Zopa (zopa.com)

Sweetloaf · 19 May 2009 at 13:56

Solari said:
If the other party has no means to sort it out, shouldn't she just declare bankruptcy, saving you a packet.... This seems a bit OTT and while your approach is admirable, if it were me I'd not be so keen to load myself up with such a massive debt

I hear you, truth is it's a very sensitive situation because there are kids involved, now more than ever before I need to avoid conflicts or arguments for their sake.

I'm not keen on taking the debt but it's the only way to do this.