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It doesn't quite give the same rights. There are some issues around pensions I believe that do not apply to civil partnerships.
You're right, I should have put "broadly gives the same rights and responsibilities" but again as I initially said it's to all intents and purposes a marriage.
That aside the fact that we are now in a situation of "seperate but equal" which I personally do not feel is healthy. Would you accept a special type of marriage just for black people?
I don't think anyone but the most ardent of gay rights activists want to force religious institutions to preside over gay marriages but don't you think it would be nice if they could choose to do so?
I'm being pragmatic here in that I don't think the terms are hugely important - you can have a civil partnership whether you are gay or straight and for most purposes it is the equivalent of a marriage. I'm not convinced it's particularly unhealthy but as I've said I'm not all that hung up on the precise wording so if it's going to make a big difference to peoples lives then sure, let's legally call it marriage and put the matter to bed.
It would be nice if religious institutions could preside over gay marriages should they wish to but to the best of my understanding there's nothing preventing them holding a religious ceremony to "bless" the marriage or whatever the equivalent may be. Personally I might be more in favour of making marriage a purely civil affair (and open to all regardless of sexuality) and having an opportunity for anyone who wishes it to get their union confirmed/blessed/sanctified by whatever religious organisation they wish to.
Thankfully we are not in the same position as the US but we are still allowing religious institutions to force their beliefs on to those that have no interest in them. Your reliogion is against homosexuality? Fine, dont marry someone of the same gender, however you shouldnt be allowed to tell others who they can and cannot marry.
The term marriage doesn't seem hugely important to me in regard to the intent but again, if it bothers people that much then let's see if the law can't be changed to remove the term from it's currently protected status and applied more equally.
