It could be argued that eating porridge with milk is better/healthier than using just water as the fat and protein in the milk will further slow the absorption of carbs from the oats and lessen insulin response, excess blood insulin is what drives body fat storage, calories are largely irrelevant, we can eat a very high calorie diet and remain slim or lose weight if required as long as the diet also controls/minimises blood insulin levels.
Can't really see the problem with red meat either, red meat contains nutrients not present in either white meats or fish so should imo be eaten in combination with these, Beef is also one of the richest sources of CLA (conjugated linoleic acid) which has been found to have very beneficial effects on health.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conjugated_linoleic_acid
Can't really see the problem with red meat either, red meat contains nutrients not present in either white meats or fish so should imo be eaten in combination with these, Beef is also one of the richest sources of CLA (conjugated linoleic acid) which has been found to have very beneficial effects on health.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conjugated_linoleic_acid