do you keep contact with your Ex?

Depends on the person and the split really, but I've stayed in contact with my one serious ex, and we're pretty good friends these days although we don't see each other very often, still get along well when we do. I do still feel a bit jealous though as shes moved on very easily whereas I haven't, but its not that much of a big deal.
 
Nope, I've always been civil about it (even if that wasn't reciprocated) but I've never stayed in touch with an ex. Then again I've only been out with two girls really, other girls have just been flings. One or two of those I have stayed in touch with.
 
I keep in contact with 2 of my Ex a lot, see them every few month for a chat+drink and talk via MSN/txt now and the. Another Ex is one of my best friends sister so i see her fairly often while i'm at his place, she also comes on the odd night out with us all and usally we end up chatting for a while.

Personally I can't see why more people arn't friends with their Exs. Under circumstances where one party was cheated on fair enough but for the normal run of the mill relationship end I find it a shame. People must have been friends while going out and got on with each another well? :confused:
 
Yup, i pretty much do. In-fact there's only one that i wouldnt talk to, and she was the nutter to measure all others against.
Hmm, i think maybe my ex is someone that i will always feel close to (she feels the same way, or at least did the last time we spoke at length), but a b/f-g/f relationship with her wouldnt work (not would i want it to).

I think it's healthy to talk to people that are close to you, and that you hold dear. If you aren't, and don't, then just stay clear :).
 
I tried to stay friends with my ex, I said that I just wanted to be friends. I texted her a week after we broke up and we started texting all the time and meeting for drinks.

The problem was she always wanted to stay over, which I could understand as she is disabled and it is expensive to get a taxi to town and back, but she started wanting to hold hands and hug.

The last time we saw each other she was really drunk and kept saying 'I love you, do you love me?', she kept wanting to go to my house, she ended up falling out of her wheelchair and I had to take her to hospital.

About 2 weeks later she asked why I was avoiding seeing her, I said it was because she was so serious last time she went out. She said I sent out mixed messages (one time when she stopped over I started touching her) and if we stopped friends she would always think we would get back together. :(

I feel guilty as when it started out I thought it was just having fun, I didn't think she thought it was so serious, I think it's because she is disabled and her dad died 5 years ago.
 
Hmmm me and my lack of experience. Only really had two relationships the last one being the most serious. We didnt really fall out,more like an agreement we never saw each other enough and stuff like that even though i didnt want to buy i went along with it. Still in contact with her.....spent ages getting angry when she would mention other men and like ignore me but she would always give a reason like she had to go for whatever reason but me....i always just loved her again :( FINALLY did start to get over it when a mate of mines tells me shes asked what he thought i would say if she asked me back out......and now im at square one again. We'll see where we end up but i aint doing nout till i get my exams done and then im free to do what i want :D
 
One was round at mind tonight, i've just taken her home. See some from time to time, others not at all, depends on the person and how things ended.

//Edit: ^^Looks totally fake, but funny none-the-less :D
 
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I don't make an effort to see or speak to any of mine, although most I would say hi to if we randomly bumped into each other. I make an effort to avoid the last one though.
 
All my ex's (well 3) i avoid simply because of my current girlfriend! She is quite the jealous type and any contact with any girl, i get screwed at!
 
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Aw man a bed to yourself........quality. :D Just the lack of sex i guess :rolleyes:


My ex was never clingy.....i would wake up at like 1pm and she wouldnt be next to me but i would go downstairs and her mum had made a beast of a fry up :D Thats what im talking about :o
 
When we split from a 3.5 year uber serious relationship which she said she wanted to stay in forever etc etc and then one week later is sleeping with one of my friends, no. I'd prefer it if she never existed - there's no malice about it it's just the fact I've seen what sort of a person she is and it's definitely not the sort I want to talk to ever again.
 
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