do you trust your girlfriend on holiday with her mates?

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Just a general question.

Say your girlfriend was going off for 2weeks with her mates on holiday, do u trust her if you know all her mates are tarts?

Im in the middle, my girlfriend goes on holiday every year with her sister and friend but i found out what her sister and friend got up to over there and it makes me wonder?, im not saying i dont trust her but just makes me wonder what shed been up to.

Its a question of trust really isnt it.
 
I think so mate. And tbh finding out what her mates and sister get upto...

Though one thing - are they single too, or do you know that they've cheated on somebody?

I think you also gotta ask yourself (as you say) whether you trust her or not. She could be a lass who's faithful :)
 
I guess it depends on the indivdual mate. Good relationships are built on trust, if you don't have that its not worth being together imo.

I know I wouldn't be happy to let my gf go on a girls type holiday, not because i don't trust her but because i don't trust the majority of guys and would hate for something bad to happen to her. I guess it could be a similar thing?
 
Back in 1997 my girflriend of 2 years went on holiday with her mates to Ibiza. I was gutted and could not help but wonder what she was upto the whole time. She was 18 and we seemed to be goign through the make or break patch.

As it turns out she missed me loads and wanted to come home sooner than she did. I made things easier for myself by going on a beano to Blackpool with the lads for a week (during her 2 weeks hols). Of course I never got upto anything and I'm 100% sure she never either. That was the last time we had seperate holidays.

Damn! The lads are in Vegas as I type this.
 
I still want to go to Ibiza this summer with the girls, despite what the boyf says I will be going for the music and the suntan :cool:

One of the other girls is seeing a bloke at the moment and a couple will be single. Like people say its a trust thing and until he takes me away on hols I am not giving up my yearly suntan trip!

If I wanna go away and he doesn't wanna come/offer an alternative then I'm not going to lose out by not getting out of this cold depressing country!

BB x
 
Yes I would trust her, I suppose the trust only comes after a time and is not given as soon as the relationship starts so if i was only going out with someone for a short time then maybe I couldn't trust her (even if i wanted to)
 
Bigstan said:
If I felt I couldn't trust any girlfriend I had to go on holiday without being unfaithful, regardless of the company she's in, she wouldn't be my girlfriend.

Stan :)
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Same goes for me too :D
 
Yes, I do trust my other half, but she's my wife not my gf. :)

paddyuk said:
Its a question of trust really isnt it.
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Yup. My read of it, exactly. If you decide you don't or can't trust her, I'd suggest you're with the wrong girl .... or she's with the wrong bloke. It'll be one of the other, IMHO.
 
Bigstan said:
If I felt I couldn't trust any girlfriend I had to go on holiday without being unfaithful, regardless of the company she's in, she wouldn't be my girlfriend.

Stan :)
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Yea exactly. If there is no trust then the relationship is buggered, as you will just be a jibbering wreck constantly wondering what she is up to.
 
Yeah I'd trust my lass.

Cuts both ways, she knows what most of my mates are like but still has no problem at all with me going to Amsterdam for a stag do.

Her girls' holiday to Ibiza has been cancelled :( so I'll be making up for it by taking her somewhere nice..
 
You can trust her, unless she met someone like me, in which case it wouldn't be her fault because she would be powerless to resist the sheer animal magnetism.

LOL.

But yeah I'd trust her, don't think you have a choice really :)
 
Rich_L said:
You can trust her, unless she met someone like me, in which case it wouldn't be her fault because she would be powerless to resist the sheer animal magnetism.

LOL.

But yeah I'd trust her, don't think you have a choice really :)
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No woman can resist the power of the high Five :D
 
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