And back to the thread to give a quick update. A little drunk so excuse me if I'm not quite as fluid as previously.
If radiotherapy could cause lower rates in testosterone and possibly cause skin cancer, then why haven't you considered having the other testicle removed? It'd seem far more safer, and if you'll need testosterone supplements anyway... it seems like an option you should consider.
Good luck though.
I've just seen this. It's a very good point and my oncologist did suggest removal of the second testicle (he mentioned it after a couple of visits and expressed it as though it was something that had just occurred to him, but I think it was his way of easing the bad news in gradually). Everyone has to make their own decisions if they are in a similar situation. For me it wasn't a hard decision at all. Losing one testicle was not great news. Losing a second was not something I wanted to happen, even if it isn't performing a useful function. Short to medium term keeping it has the benfit that I have normal testosterone levels. Long term it will be the same as if I'd had it removed... however... reach down below and decide if you really want it all removed. My decision was to keep it. Everyone differs and if faced with that choice then they have to decide on their own. A lonely road. Sometimes we have to make serious decisions and it has to be our own choice. No answer is right and none is wrong.
Today I had my last radiotherapy session. For anyone who is going through similar, or might need it in the furture, it really isn't anything to worry about. You have a "molding" session where they work out the best size and shape of lead to protect the immediate area. Then a number of sessions each day for a measured dose of radiation to a local area. In my case I had 10 sessions over 2 weeks. On each day I've gone to the Royal Marsden Sutton and been "zapped". This really is a simple and very quick procedure. You lay on a table, they arrange some lead shielding over the nearby area, they all walk out the room, a small buzzer sounds, the machine whirs, then it's all over.
I've worked at home during that time. The only side effects I've had are a slight itchiness in the area and also feeling a little achey on one side. But really it is minor. There have been a couple of "uncomfortable" sessions; the first was a junior nurse who I felt was a little uncomfortable handling me "down there" (by now I honestly couldn't care less who sees me but she seemed a little embarrassed) and another time when one lady was talking to a nurse in a corner and was clearly upset that her treatment wasn't going quite to plan. That will stay with me forever. When you hear someone tell a stranger that they are scared then that tells a story
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That's a bad moon on the rise. And for that reason I haven't let my wife come with me or my children know what is going on. I wish that lady the best, I really do.
My 8yr old daughetr has started asking questions and simply answering "I have a doctors appointment" isn't really working now. I think I will have to tell her soon. That's fine but it also means telling my 5yr old son and while there really is a very little chance of further problems, young children don't see it that way. I don't really want to tell them because I think they will worry when there is no need to.
But I have to say that everyone. And I mean
everyone at the Marsden has been wonderful. Every single person has treated me with such compassion and respect that I honestly couldn't have asked for more. It's hard to explain but it's the tone of voice and the way they make you feel like they are here for
you that really does help.
When I was growing up there was a TV programme called "Angels". Honestly, everyone who works there are Angels.
So now it is back to the humdrum of occasional checkups and an MRI scan mid May.
All the best chaps... check down below every day
EDIT: A quick pic of the car thats kept me sane during the last few months. I've made a point of driving to the Marsden most days in it. I love the thing
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Excuse the messy garage.
And got to love this song, keeps me so upbeat: