Some of the best advise I have ever read on this forum.
Choose to grow up now and manage your life and emotions now, or pay for it later on.
Don't know how to feel or what to do
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Some of the best advise I have ever read on this forum.
Choose to grow up now and manage your life and emotions now, or pay for it later on.
You have what I call "young man syndrome" whereby its easy to blame everything but yourself.. you get into a spiral and then you end up not caring about what you should because you think well I have already fluffed it up so what's the point..
Was exactly the same at your age.. ended up with me failing my degree.. not through lack of intelligence but just simply because I was lazy and got into a depressive cycle where I then just thought why bother..
Like everyone else says you need to make positive changes now whilst you still have the opportunity.. spend the next week working out what you want to do and then make changes to your life.. perhaps the degree isn't for you? maybe you can swap to another course or look at other options.. but the worst thing to do is not make a change..
In my case life has turned out well and I am lucky to live a very comfortable life at the age of 32.. through some lucky breaks and shear hard work once I had a family and commitments outside of myself...
tldr: make positive change now
Was exactly the same at your age.. ended up with me failing my degree.. not through lack of intelligence but just simply because I was lazy and got into a depressive cycle where I then just thought why bother..
Like everyone else says you need to make positive changes now whilst you still have the opportunity.. spend the next week working out what you want to do and then make changes to your life.. perhaps the degree isn't for you? maybe you can swap to another course or look at other options.. but the worst thing to do is not make a change..
In my case life has turned out well and I am lucky to live a very comfortable life at the age of 32.. through some lucky breaks and shear hard work once I had a family and commitments outside of myself...
tldr: make positive change now