yeah most of my stops in traffic will be for 10-40s if that so I'll sit on the brake if it's a proper grid lock I'll put in park and foot brake on.This is one aspect I need to get used to/work out how I'm going to approach it - had an auto pickup for the last few weeks previously only driven manual. Currently I'm mostly just sitting on the brake unless it looks like a very long wait.
I get blinded by other car brake lights so I do not feel sorry for people behind me.
often put my rear blind up so I can block out their red faces in my rear view.