Drunken Vent time...

I agree with all the above comments. He was acting like a tool at the end of the night but becuase I have NEVER seen him like this and it was competely out of character I was geniunly scared of what he might do to himself and his surroundings.

"andy" said:
why did you go out to the same place as his ex ?

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I personally didnt know she was out until we arrived in town.

malfunkshun said:
no offence but I can't understand getting smashed before you go out, it is asking for issues if you are going to drink more. Nothing wrong with having a couple in the house and going out in a decent state though.
Alcohol is a depressant, so getting **** faced when you are feeling low is asking for trouble tbh.
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Normally its never an issue and we dont get COMPLETLY smashed, just enough. Were both very happy drunks anyways and it saves a lot of money by predrinking. This is our usual plan when we go out. We get drunk at mine, watch a comedy (standup / movie) and have a good laugh then head into town for comedy times.

Havent spoke to him today, hope hes alright. Kinda just wanna give him time to sort himself out.
 
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I really dont understand 'pre drinking' to save money, do you have a pre meal before you go out to an expensive restaurant? tbh I think given your mates delicate state you'd have been better off trying to get him to drink less. A crap load of booze plus people in that situation always seems to end badly.
 
Love the way some people on here think that by getting drunk you can control everything you do, everyone is different and sometimes when even slightly drunk its hard to control emotions.
 
I had many a night like that when I was younger. I just finished my 20's and must say, I don't miss it at all. He/you will eventually realise how trivial stuff like that is.



Ampeg said:
I really dont understand 'pre drinking' to save money, do you have a pre meal before you go out to an expensive restaurant?
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This may come as a shock to you, but for many people, the point of drinking is to get wasted.

For most people, the point of eating in a restaurant, isn't to gorge yourself to the point of bursting. If it were, I'm sure many people would in fact pre-eat in an effort to save money.
 
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Ampeg said:
I really dont understand 'pre drinking' to save money, do you have a pre meal before you go out to an expensive restaurant? tbh I think given your mates delicate state you'd have been better off trying to get him to drink less. A crap load of booze plus people in that situation always seems to end badly.
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Pre-meal, wtf? I dont understand why its such a hard concept to grasp? Im pretty sure a lot of people pre drink before a night out...

He wasnt in a "delicate state". As far as I knew he wasnt happy about there situation but nowhere near the state he seemed to be in last night. All night we were talking to them and having a laugh with his X and her mates. At my house and up until the end of the night he and her were acting the same as they always do. Pretty normal mutual stuff, So I didnt see a reason to tell him to slow down.

Of course the extreme amount of alcohol played a massive roll in the antics of the night but due to this all happening AFTER hes drank a lot it was hard to know it was gonna end up like it did.
 
Boring, I thought this was going to be someone sitting on ventrillo making a fool of themselves, but I end up wasting 5 minutes of my life reading this drivel.
 
tell your mate to man up, and instead of hitting the floor and shops why didnt he save that for the chavs that called you gay?

it would however amuse me on a night out, to see a drunken teenager hitting the floor screaming "she killed me inside". Dont let your friend become the butt of a joke
 
Under-age drinking is a problem.

I'm assuming the OP's friend is under age, based on the OP's post.

I've known a few people break their wrist and/or bones in their hand because they hit hard things when they were drunk. They are fools who chose to make themselves a step or two down from a monkey in terms of behaviour, because a monkey has more sense than that.

Your mate's a tool for behaving that way and his ex is a tool for making out with some random guy to wind your mate up. Maybe they deserve each other.
 
Ampeg said:
I really dont understand 'pre drinking' to save money, do you have a pre meal before you go out to an expensive restaurant?
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Eating at an expensive restaurant would be comparable with something like a pleasant evening tasting a selection of high quality examples of whatever your favourite type of drink is in small quantities, for the flavours. The primary purpose being to enjoy the drinking, the tastes, the smells, perhaps also the sight and feel of the drinks.

That is completely different to a normal night out on the town, where the primary purpose of the drinking is to get drunk. It is relatively easy to acquire a tolerance for alcohol and many people do. That means that they need to take more alcohol to get drunk. It is far cheaper to buy alcohol from a shop than to buy it from a club, so it makes a great deal of sense to get drunk before going out, in order to save money.
 
Sime said:
Started out like any other night...Me and my best mate get drunk at mine then make our way into town. My mate is in a pretty messed up situation with his X (he loves her, she doesnt kinda thing?) they basically dont know what they are doing. My mate started talking to another lass (getting close but nothing more). She gets jelous and starts making out with a random lad at the end of the night (litterally in my best mates face).

He storms outside, I give chase but loose him. I found him outside in a mess sat on a kerb saying such things as "I just want to die". I try to confort telling him the usual, "shes a *****, forget about her mate". It doesnt help and he litterally goes mental and startes hitting the floor in a mental way. He trys for talk to her and she tells him to **** off which then drives him into overdrive crazed mode. Hitting and shops and stuff.

I let him get on with it but after a while he went off somewhere. I tried to follow him (I was ****ed out of my head) but lost him. I made my way to Tescos to try and find him (our usual way home). No luck. He disapeared.

About 30mins later I get a phone call "I just wanna die, shes killed me inside!" I told him to meet me a Tescos which he does.

Once he arrives I embrase him with a man hug in which to top the night off some ****head chavs start saying how they want to beat the **** out of us for being fags (they dont, all talk no action)

*sigh* what a night...Walked him home in a right mess. Proper not usual to this kinda ****. ****.

Sorry for the rant. Need to vent somewhere. Off to bed.
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sorry , what film is this ?
 
you, him the x have lots to learn about beers and relationships.. getting 'smashed' before you even hit the town is asking for trouble.... everything in moderation young one.

no doubt your friend will be waking up feeling like a gumbo, and does in the light of day he really wanna die? i doubt it.
 
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