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Dump her or keep her?!

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you are in the way of two people who want to be together. for that reason alone (forgetting all the other reasons, of which there are many), leave her.

never play 2nd fiddle to another man.

off topic - why would someone new to posting on here post up a relationship thread, are we sure this isnt a current member too scared to post under their usual name? ;]
 
Cheers for the replies folks and the welcome! To the people that said I wasnt hurt, of course I am. Just my defence is to try as hard as possible not to let it get to me. Suppose I'm just going through the stage now of looking at single life and it's frightening but I'm sure I'll soon love being able to sit in my pants at the weekend and not have to worry about anyone else for a while :D

My housemates all think I'm crazy for feeling bad about dumping her but heh its just hard being the one stuck in the middle. I'll hopefully look back in a week or two and think "OMG I escaped!! What was I thinking!"
 
$loth said:
Do her first.
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he's been seeing her for 6 months, something is very wrong if he hasn't done her yet?
Or do you mean, before he dumps her? If so.. that leads me to a rather shameful memory where I dumped a girl while she was drunk and we were both in bed, both went to sleep, woke up the next morning, shagged her, /then/ reminded her I'd dumped her.

Erm... Yeah.. don't do that!
 
Martins said:
that leads me to a rather shameful memory where I dumped a girl while she was drunk and we were both in bed, both went to sleep, woke up the next morning, shagged her, /then/ reminded her I'd dumped her.
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classic!

good work 'no morals' bloke!
 
BrightonBelle said:
Ditch her, she is obviously messing with you, rebounds are never good.

You can do better and don't appear to really give a **** anyway (i.e you don't sound hurt/devastated/PO at being messed around at all).

Sounds like more hassle than its worth in my opinion.

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Well said, she just went with you on the rebound. She is using you and does not care about you, get rid now.
 
yhack said:
You joined a computer discussion forum to ask that question?
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Nope. Just decided it would be my first question! Decided I should have chosen a different topic as didnt expect this many replies!! Now I'll immedietely be put in the "Girls do you think I'm attractive" group and never shake the shame :( lol
 
Zefan said:
You're on top...
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while i knew what it was, i had no intention of posting it. tbh i think this goes against the 'family' ethic of this forum :]
 
make up with her, give her a donkey punch, break up with her.

also could try finding the boyfriend through facebook or another way, adding him and making friends with him and all his mates so she gets more ****ed off. (make up your own word)
 
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