if i was the seller i would rightly be annoyed, i would not have accepted the return
but that leaves you open to the buyer saying its broken and the a forced return
sellers probably thinking he's going to get scammed
also when hes gets it back its going to be harder to sell as it will be post christmas
Which is the very situation I've been in.
I'm a private seller and I have sold plenty of items "new and sealed" - that doesn't suddenly give someone the right to return something.
It's based on who the seller is - not what they are selling.
If I'm a business on Ebay, whatever I'm selling has to allow returns - as a private seller I do not.
However, I sold a router ages ago. 100% working, but the chap was having trouble setting it up. I helped for a little while with suggestions and eventually he contacted me to say "this obviously wasn't the router for him - so he'd like to return it".
I told him no, sorry - but told him to relist it, he'd make most of his money back.
Less than 24hrs later there is a buyer dispute "Item not as described".......
I showed his message to me about returning it as evidence - ruled in his favour, I have to take the item back and of course I'm out of pocket on postage etc.
I don't particularly have an issue with "ruling in favour of the buyer" as a rule for Ebay - however there always has to be exceptions to rules. And of course there are always those willing to use these rules to their own advantage.
OP changes his mind and will now use all the lies available to him to get the outcome he wants - buyer will lose out, but it doesn't matter does it? He's just a faceless person on the internet.