but you have a problem with something that happened 1500 years ago when the father of the bride/relatives, the non-muslims.. no one raised any objections.. perhaps it was the custom of the time.. but dont let facts get in the way..
Of course it was likely the custom at that time, why does that get in the way? Doesn't mean it is wrong to point out what we'd call it today.
Some ancient greeks used to engage in pederasty, that it was the custom at the time doesn't get in the way of commenting on it.
here's another fact - when people are usually paedophiles, they dont stop at one girl.. they have lots.. He had ONE..
So what?