D.P. said:Where in California. Where I spent most of my time there was barely a single visible person. keep well clear of the bottom 1/3 of CA and your mostly by yourself, except Yosemite on a summer weekend and Tahoe etc. Up norht is amazing, forests and volcanoes...
I was in LA (I can hear the groans now!). But honestly, I really enjoyed it - I had a great circle of friends, my company was wonderful, and I lived in a nice area. LA has a lot of downsides, but I loved it - and I'm the least 'Hollywood' person you can imagine! One of the most abiding memories of the last few years was standing high in the Hollywood Hills in perfect silence looking over the city.
But then LA, unless you're a multimultimillionaire, is a city for young people - it's not somewhere that I would raise a family, hence the dilemma between there, where I could take a job easily, and somewhere quieter. Midwest US - Minnesota/Colorado - is much more my type of environment, but I couldn't work as a lawyer there.