Soldato
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Eye surgery is no laughing matter, so afterwards just refrain from any making any crass jokes and just keep an eye on her.
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Eye surgery is no laughing matter, so afterwards just refrain from any making any crass jokes and just keep an eye on her.
Other thing is... for something to improve the times she doesn’t want to joke about it.
I did a quick google but blooming searches kept coming up with stuff about fake eyelashes, so not what I was hoping to find.
Given the technology available today for eye scanning, or even just generation from a high resolution image.
Surely there must be a place that can produce a high quality prosthetic for a cost that isn’t absurd.
Ideally would have them scan the one that won’t be hanging around for much longer before it is removed... that way it would be as close to the original as possible, rather than approximation based upon the eye that’s steyeing (see what I did there?).
That could at least give her some semblance of normality for the times she would feel better for it.
If interested and can’t find anything suitable, drop me a trust message and I would be happy to have a chat with my Doctory friends... I know some good specialists who know other good specialists... so sure I could locate something for you.
Jokes are great and it sounds like you both have a great attitude about it... lighting up the bad times in such a way make it all so much better... but I’m sure there will be times where a moment of normality will be important.
Geez, sorry to hear that.Right well, here we go. I don't usually share this kind of thing but this terrifies me so here we are.
My the TL;DR (full explanation upon request) is that the tumour in my wife's eye is growing and it looks like the removal of the eye is the only solution. This has been on the cards ever since she was 6 so it's always been a case of when, not if. As far as I'm concerned this will be good in the long run as there's a chance it could spread to the liver and ain't nobody got time fo' dat. On top of this we both use up at least 10 days a year annual leave for hospital visits and the constant uncertainty of it being there has always been in the back of our minds.
Anywaysssssss, looks like time's up so it needs out. We're slowly coming to terms with it and have even come up with some stuff to make it light hearted, we're gonna call her Mike Wazowski, or Minion, or Popeye or whatever.
Now the hard part is that it's gonna suck, there's no way around that, and it's going to hurt like a bitch at first.
I want to make this as painless and support her as much as I can during what will be one of the most difficult phases of her life and that's why I'm here asking for suggestions. She'll need a patch for a while so I'll be getting all sorts of cool funky ones but as far as ideas go that's as far as I've gotten for now.
Anyone got any ideas?
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Eye surgery is no laughing matter, so afterwards just refrain from any making any crass jokes and just keep an eye on her.
For example former PM Gordon Brown lost and eye/had a glass eye and people generally wouldn't have known if they hadn't heard about it/been told etc..
if that's true then wow, i never picked up on it.
Damn diddums, only just read your post in the other thread about hitting rock bottom.
Hope it all goes well, time/friends/family are a great healer.
In hospital today, the quacks have had their round table meeting with all the pros to discuss her case and their conclusion was that they need to do a biopsy first as they're not entirely convinced it's cancer. Whether this is to genuinely try and save the eye or for research purposes is unclear but I wouldn't be surprised if it's the former: every single staff member we've dealt with here has been absolutely phenomenal, I honestly can't speak highly enough of Moorfields hospital. The only person who left a bit to be desired was the receptionist, she booked an appointment for today, then we got a letter saying it had been moved to the day after we received the letter, so we emailed the quack (we're on first name terms now, BFFs 'n errythang) and he sorted it. Bit of a mess but fixxored painlessly.
So now she has to take another 3 days off, I'll be there on the day of the biopsy but working the next two. Currently doing pre-op checks, watching Bargain Hunters in the waiting room, rather exciting stuff.
You are at least in the best place. Moorfields is superb. Probably the best in the world. Talking to the doctor who dealt with my other half, he'd worked on about half a dozen F1 drivers as well as Indycar and MotoGP guys.
Best wishes to yourself and of course Mrs Diddums.