I have a 60kwh Model 3 and I've got no regrets not getting the long range. I've done loads of long (e.g. 400+ mile) trips and its fine, yes it charges slower than the LR but its not that much slower as its a more efficient car than the LR. It's pretty rare that I don't need to stop for a toilet break before the car runs out of charge which further eats into the LR's advantage.
What's also good about the charging curve is that as long as you have it in the right temperature range, it's initial charging power is always high, almost regardless of what SOC you have when you plug in. I've plugged in at 70% and got over 100kw and I was still getting 50kw at 90%.
Where the SR falls down is the 'I'm going a couple of hours in one direction where you wouldn't normally need to stop and then coming back' type scenarios. The LR stretches out those distances from 100-115 miles to 120-140 miles without having to stop and charge.
I also much prefer the charge curve on a Tesla where it is initially very fast before slowly throttling down over over the slower but flatter charge curves. It's very rare that I'd need to charge 10-80%, most likely I's just need to add 20-30% to get where I am getting so with Tesla upfronting the charge delivery means I can get on my way faster and it means cars turnover on the chargers faster.
The only reason I am swapping it for a long range Model Y is I need a tow bar and the SR Y doesn't have enough range when towing.
for instance I stopped at trentham gardens near stoke.
That site is BUSY on a Saturday and that's before the V4's were added and it was opened up to non-Tesla. That expanded site would be busy just serving Tesla at the weekends. If the V4's were down, I'd expect it was not a great experience.
Word has definitely got around to other EV owners how much cheaper the superchargers are than every other network, even paying the non-tesla tax. People are no doubt using that site instead of Apple Green at Keel services up the road at twice the price. There a few open sites which are getting mobbed by non-Tesla's now Trentham will be one but Trafford centre is worse, it's constantly mobbed with DPD vans charging, particularly first thing in the morning or just after the rounds have finished with staff cycling them onto the chargers constantly...
The best part is there are 21 type 2's in the same carpark and they are MORE expensive than Tesla superchargers even during their 4 hour peek pricing period.
There was a time where I used non-Tesla rapids but I've sacked that off for now (unless I am desperate), I've not paid more than 35p/kwh at Tesla for months now, all other rapids are at least 65p and many are 79-85p. Despite wholesale prices dropping in half over the last year, prices for public charging are still creeping up.