Fancy dress, am i being harsh!

GodMac · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:05

pioneer2000 said:
I wonder if his g/f would wear a green light at a traffic light night - it's essentially inviting attention in the same way as dressing provocatively is.

Have you ever been submitted for drug testing! :confused:

krooton · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:06

GodMac said:
No. Maybe jokingly put over but I've known plenty of wives who are bored in relationships because they are not made to feel special any more. All it takes is some flash git with a bit of excitement and it does turn heads. The secret is not to let the relationship go stale.

So the OP only has to worry if he's not been treating her well enough, perhaps he is so anti her doing this because he's been slack of late...

Kazz · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:09

pioneer2000 said:
I wonder if his g/f would wear a green light at a traffic light night - it's essentially inviting attention in the same way as dressing provocatively is.

...are you that guy? :eek:

Redman · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:09

pioneer2000 said:
Oh of course it is. The intention of both is to make people look at you and approach you.

In either one, the girl still has the choice of turning down any advances. It's the intention however that is disrespectful.

What's the intention of you buying a new shirt, or dressing up for a night out then? Same thing, you flirt

Women are human you know, and they also like to look good. For themselves, for their boyfriends, or just for the sake of it. Dressing up in fancy dress is not a signalled intention to cheat on you, if you think it is then you really do need help.

pioneer2000 · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:13

Redman said:
What's the intention of you buying a new shirt, or dressing up for a night out then? Same thing, you flirt

Women are human you know, and they also like to look good. For themselves, for their boyfriends, or just for the sake of it. Dressing up in fancy dress is not a signalled intention to cheat on you, if you think it is then you really do need help.

No, you're missing the crucial point here - it's not "any fancy dress" or dressing smartly... it's dressing in hotpants, or fishnets, or in ridiculously skimpy clothing when it isn't necessary (i.e. down the highstreet in winter). If they are in a relationship, they have no reason to dress like such.

Dressing as a zombie or a ghost at Halloween is totally unrelated to dressing like a tart.

What a dumb comment about buying a new shirt FYI.

Burnsy2023 · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:13

GodMac said:
LOL My bed post is full of notches from wives of "Content Relationships". Why do you think she's content? Because she's getting a good roasting elsewhere and then content in cooking your sunday dinner.

If you tried it with my missus I'd expect you leaving with a broken nose at best.

krooton · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:14

Redman said:
What's the intention of you buying a new shirt, or dressing up for a night out then? Same thing, you flirt

Women are human you know, and they also like to look good. For themselves, for their boyfriends, or just for the sake of it. Dressing up in fancy dress is not a signalled intention to cheat on you, if you think it is then you really do need help.

He doesn't want help, he wants RESPECT!

jamesblade · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:15

pioneer2000 said:
Are you saying your daughter eats too much pizza? Confused!

About time you said something normal .. My work here is done.

krooton · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:15

pioneer2000 said:
No, you're missing the crucial point here - it's not "any fancy dress" or dressing smartly... it's dressing in hotpants, or fishnets, or in ridiculously skimpy clothing when it isn't necessary (i.e. down the highstreet in winter).

Dressing as a zombie or a ghost at Halloween is totally unrelated to dressing like a tart.

What a dumb comment about buying a new shirt FYI.

So the fact they are going to a BURLESQUE THEMED PARTY means it's fine?

GodMac · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:16

krooton said:
So the OP only has to worry if he's not been treating her well enough, perhaps he is so anti her doing this because he's been slack of late...

Put it like this, I know that if my missus goes out that she wouldn't even entertain the fact of another man coming near her. She would talk and be polite but anything else she would put him right in his place. Reason I know this is because we've been married for 12 years, I buy her everything she wants, cars, holiday, bung her a few hundred every now and then just to go shopping to spend on what ever she wants, book surprise weekends away, take her to shows, out for meals, iphone, and what really floats her boat bags! Loius Vuitton, Cloe, Gucci etc....

If she wants to go off she knows she'll loose the lot. And if you think not everyone has the money to do this, think again, I made £457 in 1 month selling crap at the car boot.

That's why I know she won't go off.

krooton · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:17

GodMac said:
Put it like this, I know that if my missus goes out that she wouldn't even entertain the fact of another man coming near her. She would talk and be polite but anything else she would put him right in his place. Reason I know this is because we've been married for 12 years, I buy her everything she wants, cars, holiday, bung her a few hundred every now and then just to go shopping to spend on what ever she wants, book surprise weekends away, take her to shows, out for meals, iphone, and what really floats her boat bags! Loius Vuitton, Cloe, Gucci etc....

If she wants to go off she knows she'll loose the lot. And if you think not everyone has the money to do this, think again, I made £457 in 1 month selling crap at the car boot.

That's why I know she won't go off.

So you've purchased your wife? Classy.

pioneer2000 · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:18

krooton said:
So the fact they are going to a BURLESQUE THEMED PARTY means it's fine?

Yes, in fairness I wasn't directly discussing the OP's problem. However from the sounds of it, it's just them dressing in a burlesque theme, so they're still going out on the town, just using that as an excuse to dress in that way.

Nerusy · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:19

GodMac said:
Put it like this, I know that if my missus goes out that she wouldn't even entertain the fact of another man coming near her. She would talk and be polite but anything else she would put him right in his place. Reason I know this is because we've been married for 12 years, I buy her everything she wants, cars, holiday, bung her a few hundred every now and then just to go shopping to spend on what ever she wants, book surprise weekends away, take her to shows, out for meals, iphone, and what really floats her boat bags! Loius Vuitton, Cloe, Gucci etc....

If she wants to go off she knows she'll loose the lot. And if you think not everyone has the money to do this, think again, I made £457 in 1 month selling crap at the car boot.

That's why I know she won't go off.

And they say you can not buy love!

J.T · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:19

GodMac said:
Put it like this, I know that if my missus goes out that she wouldn't even entertain the fact of another man coming near her. She would talk and be polite but anything else she would put him right in his place. Reason I know this is because we've been married for 12 years, I buy her everything she wants, cars, holiday, bung her a few hundred every now and then just to go shopping to spend on what ever she wants, book surprise weekends away, take her to shows, out for meals, iphone, and what really floats her boat bags! Loius Vuitton, Cloe, Gucci etc....

If she wants to go off she knows she'll loose the lot. And if you think not everyone has the money to do this, think again, I made £457 in 1 month selling crap at the car boot.

That's why I know she won't go off.

So if "insert her favourite actor here" came along and offered her all that plus much more she would be like "No Thanks" then?

Yeah sure...

GodMac · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:19

Burnsy2023 said:
If you tried it with my missus I'd expect you leaving with a broken nose at best.

And if violence is your reaction, your missus would also be insulted that you didn't trust her to handle the situation.

Kazz · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:20

GodMac said:
Put it like this, I know that if my missus goes out that she wouldn't even entertain the fact of another man coming near her. She would talk and be polite but anything else she would put him right in his place.

Ok, good.

GodMac said:
Reason I know this is because we've been married for 12 years, I buy her everything she wants, cars, holiday, bung her a few hundred every now and then just to go shopping to spend on what ever she wants, book surprise weekends away, take her to shows, out for meals, iphone, and what really floats her boat bags! Loius Vuitton, Cloe, Gucci etc....

If she wants to go off she knows she'll loose the lot. And if you think not everyone has the money to do this, think again, I made £457 in 1 month selling crap at the car boot.

That's why I know she won't go off.

See, now you sound like your renting her.

Supercow · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:20

So you are saying that because you pay for stuff, your wife won't cheat on you?

BIG LOL from me "Mr Moneybags"

Burnsy2023 · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:22

GodMac said:
And if violence is your reaction, your missus would also be insulted that you didn't trust her to handle the situation.

It wouldn't be me giving you the broken nose. That would be rather inappropriate

GodMac · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:22

J.T said:
So if "insert her favourite actor here" came along and offered her all that plus much more she would be like "No Thanks" then?

Yeah sure...

No it wouldn't but the chances of that happening are very low, but your right it could happen. The same way that everyone in this forum could have it happen. Its just how you deal with it if it does.

GodMac · 6 Sep 2011 at 16:24

Burnsy2023 said:
It wouldn't be me giving you the broken nose. That would be rather inappropriate

Wow! Your missus sounds hot. We could match our tatoos together