I would just ditch it at school for both and let the parents/grandparents deal with it.
Sometimes the best solutions are the simplest. I get very disgruntled by the fact that my kids came back with loads of stuff for Mothers day and nothing for Fathers day.
got a chuckle outta me mate hence the post
and while am here maybe some of you grumpy lot can have a chuckle at my expense.... I'm going to have to wear this in public...