Feeling So Depressed.

LetsHaveIt said:
OH my good what a bunch of selfpity there is in this thred, just a few ideas.

1) Get some good therapy

2) Take lots of Drink and Drugs

3) Kill yourself

4) Be greatfull that you dont live in a third world countries
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He isn't saying he's fed up of life, just that he's feeling down at the moment.

Remind us the next time you're down in the dumps and we'll come and **** on your head.
 
Neon said:
Thought i would be a bit happier today but im really not :( i dont know whats up with me.
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*ehugs and a choc-chip muffin*
:shrug:
its the best i can do i'm afraid

i hope you figure out what's up and sort everything out soon
i guess whatever is going on in your life you still have to try and focus on the good stuff
you've got a new job, you enjoy it - so you know that things *do* change and *do* get better
you just have to sort out how to get to that point with the rest of your life

it'll be worth any struggle and any effort
 
goldilocks said:
*ehugs and a choc-chip muffin*
:shrug:
its the best i can do i'm afraid

i hope you figure out what's up and sort everything out soon
i guess whatever is going on in your life you still have to try and focus on the good stuff
you've got a new job, you enjoy it - so you know that things *do* change and *do* get better
you just have to sort out how to get to that point with the rest of your life

it'll be worth any struggle and any effort
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well im normally in college but ive now finished so there nothing to do, apart from work get home and hang about, i have no money when i get paid ill go shopping thatll do the trick. but i dont see people often ive asked a mate if he wants to watch the match tomorrow so maybe that might cheer me up?
 
If life seems jolly rotten
There's something you've forgotten
And that's to laugh and smile and dance and sing.
When you're feeling in the dumps
Don't be silly chumps
Just purse your lips and whistle - that's the thing.
 
iCraig said:
He isn't saying he's fed up of life, just that he's feeling down at the moment.

Remind us the next time you're down in the dumps and we'll come and **** on your head.
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I dont get down in the dumps now because i love my life, i dont need women, money or anything else to make me happy, it comes from inside. Trust me i know how he feels because i've been in his shoes, i felt like that for many years so i took lots of drugs to make me feel better and it did for a wile. 6 rehabs and 2 years in therpy did not work. I work a 12 step program now and because of this my life is amazing and get better every day :D
 
As CBS says, he may prescribe anti-depressants, and he may refer you to therapy.

It may be that speaking to him helps.

He's there to discuss this kind of thing with you. Use him :)
 
LetsHaveIt said:
I dont get down in the dumps now because i love my life, i dont need women, money or anything else to make me happy, it comes from inside. Trust me i know how he feels because i've been in his shoes, i felt like that for many years so i took lots of drugs to make me feel better and it did for a wile. 6 rehabs and 2 years in therpy did not work. I work a 12 step program now and because of this my life is amazing and get better every day :D
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So why are you being so sarcastic about his depression? :confused:
 
Neon said:
well im normally in college but ive now finished so there nothing to do, apart from work get home and hang about, i have no money when i get paid ill go shopping thatll do the trick. but i dont see people often ive asked a mate if he wants to watch the match tomorrow so maybe that might cheer me up?
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i don't really understand why you think that is such a bad card to be handed?
yeah strippers, and fast cars and all night, every night parties would be great - but for 99% of people life isn't like that (at least it's not for me!!)
life is about going to work/college - and hanging out and seeing your friends when you can, generally making the best of what you've got

no one can tell you what will cheer you up
it depends on your personality, your hobbies, and where and what you feel happiness comes from
it might be closer than you think- it doesn't have to come from material posessions, or even from the influence of other people...

i hope the football works though (if you support england, eurgh, maybe not) :p
 
iCraig said:
So why are you being so sarcastic about his depression? :confused:
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i'm not i was being honest. For me if i finding myself sliping back into that place i do something for someone else, i take myself out of my head space for a wile and feel better for it. ;)
 
Not sure what to say really, do go see your GP if you do feel really depressed though. Just dont let him prescribe you drugs if you really dont need them. Speaking as someone who's been depressed in the past its often worse when you come off them. You should just find something to occupy your self, think less basicly :) Do something you enjoy.
 
I quite like being alone listening to music playing online games. When I'm with company at my house too long, it doesn't take much before they start getting on my nerves and while I've appreciated their company, I know when I want them to leave.

I enjoy my privacy.
 
Have to admit that about 2 yrs ago i felt the same as well, pretty down on life...even though i really had no problems...had and still have a great job which allows me to travel to some nice places but i still wasnt happy and i hated being single. Probably due to the fact that my marriage had collapsed a yr previously and it started to really affect me and my personal life. Even though i can usually hide my feelings with things like but it was just getting too much.

Then a yr ago i met the most amazing lass i could possibly ever want and from there things started getting better and better. But the most important bit was me being happy with myself, until i was happy with myself i couldnt be with anyone as i had this habit of dragging people down with me. Plus coupled with the fact that my marriage had collapsed didnt make things any better for me. Nearly on the verge of a nervous breakdown but somehow with the help of my family and a few close friends i managed to pick myself up and started being happy.

I guess what im trying to say is that theres always better things around the corner even though i couldnt see it and i was forever moping and wallowing in my own self pity. But i kinda forced myself to look on the bright side of things as hard it was but it was worth it as im much more happier now. Yes i still have my moments when im a right moody git, even my gf says it but the difference is that i dont let it get to me and to others that are around me.

Anyways enough of my rambling on mate, i hope things start looking up for you....ive been in your position or near enough and its not a nice thing at all.
Chin up and smile dude, as i like to say..smile and the whole world smiles with you...cheesy but i like it :p
 
call the boys, get lashed, hit town, and game on baby! tell u *** uni freshers is coming up september/october! (im at the end of my 1st year) and find out when freshers week is at local unis and go out mate! cos seriously there is NO week like FRESHERS WEEK! wooooohooooo :D trust me, met my gf of 10mnths freshers week
 
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