finding older women attractive????

Zip · 14 May 2006 at 22:24

Theres nothing wrong with older women.

You can beat the site of a pair of boobs dragging across the ground and the feeling of the soft wrinkles all over them :cool:

/sarcasm

Bony Maloney · 14 May 2006 at 22:25

attractive = attractive

spike's · 14 May 2006 at 22:26

tbh i think its the whole maturaty thing. yes there are some mature younger girls ( secretspy, yes thats you

) but its just something about the older woman. maybe they dont reallise there attractive. and so dont flaunt it.

noob · 14 May 2006 at 22:27

HangTime said:
It kinda feels like at times that 'girls' think the whole world is revolving around them, and that any man should feel honoured to be speaking to them. Conversations tend to feel a bit awkward and fake. Whereas 'women' are less wary and just generally out for a good time, less worried about looking cool and happy to chat without there being any hidden motives. They have the right level of selfconfidence, not worried about what others think but not arrogant either.

Generalisations to be sure, but that's what I tend to find.

This is exactly how I feel. Talking to 'girls' can be so boring sometimes.

secretspy · 14 May 2006 at 22:28

spike's said:
tbh i think its the whole maturaty thing. yes there are some mature younger girls ( secretspy, yes thats you ) but its just something about the older woman. maybe they dont reallise there attractive. and so dont flaunt it.

why thank you hehe

edit: can someone please clarify what age is classed as "girls" i hate being called a girl - makes me feel like im a child. and i always get asked "are you a student" no im not, ive been working my butt off for 5 years now!! ( no offense to students i just dont like people assuming that im 21 so i must be student, even happened in staples i bought a bin and some pens and immediately got asked if i was a student!)

HangTime · 14 May 2006 at 22:28

Well, I was careful to put the caveat at the bottom about it being a generalisation, in preparation for a potential backlash from the OcUK girlies!

By girls I mean generally those up to the age of around 21, typically students. I'm sure there's some lovely younger women out there but I think things like peer pressure mean that a lot of them just end up being slightly less comfortable to be around.

At the end of the day I'm not going to judge someone by how old they are, but that's just a reflection on what my experience has been. It's probably partly down to my personality too, that I'm just more comfortable and can relate better to say a 32 yo than an 18 yo.

Muban · 14 May 2006 at 22:30

A woman being 30-35 is older? .........I knew it

On a side note I found on the continent, age wasn't such a big thing. Women definitely seemed to be though of as sexy and attractive or not irrespective of age.

Rich1988 · 14 May 2006 at 22:31

secretspy said:
why thank you hehe

edit: can someone please clarify what age is classed as "girls" i hate being called a girl - makes me feel like im a child. and i always get asked "are you a student" no im not, ive been working my butt off for 5 years now!!

18 and under usually

DRZ · 14 May 2006 at 22:33

Older women are amazing. Im 20 and, well, 25-30 seems to be a prime age.

Having said that, I do have to say that 18 year olds are pretty damn hard to turn down

Rich1988 · 14 May 2006 at 22:35

DRZ said:
Older women are amazing. Im 20 and, well, 25-30 seems to be a prime age.

Having said that, I do have to say that 18 year olds are pretty damn hard to turn down

dont you mean you get pretty damn hard then they turn you down??

HangTime · 14 May 2006 at 22:40

secretspy said:
ive been working my butt off for 5 years now!! ( no offense to students i just dont like people assuming that im 21 so i must be student

That's what I'm getting at and why it's hard to put a specific age on what is a 'girl'. Someone who has been working fulltime for a few years, or maybe had a child at a young age will typically have more 'life experience' than someone who has basically just been in education with people of a similar age all their life. Hence I might brand some 19 year olds 'women' and some 21 year old 'girls'... strange but true!

me227 · 14 May 2006 at 22:41

I'm only 20 and since about 19 i've developed a greater liking for older women around the 30 to 40 ages.

The majority are closer to 30 most of the time but I guess it is the maturity thing about it.

NeedleGunner · 14 May 2006 at 22:46

Older women = Experience

I prefer the older woman to some attention seeking younger woman, basically the older woman knows who she is, what she's about and generally is quite happy with herself. They want to look good, be fashionable and of course look sexy.

All it takes is for you to notice them

I think older women are DAMMED sexy, as long as they have their own teeth

Cyanide · 14 May 2006 at 22:53

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She's in her mid-30's, would you say no?

Psyk · 14 May 2006 at 22:55

Tbh if a woman was in her 60s and still hot, I'd still hit it. It's just that I don't think there's such thing as a hot 60 year old.

NeedleGunner · 14 May 2006 at 22:57

Cyanide said:
She's in her mid-30's, would you say no?

No, but she would

Meridian · 15 May 2006 at 00:13

I find women in their thirties attractive.

Oh, hang on, I'm forty-five.....

M

asim · 15 May 2006 at 00:21

HangTime said:
I must admit once I reached my mid20s I did start finding women in their early 30s quite appealing. I just find them a lot easier to flirt/have a laugh with than younger girls, because they are generally a bit more mature, much more relaxed and take things at face value. Whereas with your typical late teens girl, it's almost like they are sitting there waiting for you to impress them or something.

It kinda feels like at times that 'girls' think the whole world is revolving around them, and that any man should feel honoured to be speaking to them. Conversations tend to feel a bit awkward and fake. Whereas 'women' are less wary and just generally out for a good time, less worried about looking cool and happy to chat without there being any hidden motives. They have the right level of selfconfidence, not worried about what others think but not arrogant either.

Generalisations to be sure, but that's what I tend to find.

Ive gotta say over the past couple of years I've felt the same. I feel older woman are just as attractive if not even more so physically. The maturity is definitely the main reason I find them more attractive than girls my age. Oh and a lot of the time they are better dressed. A well dressed, mature, confident woman is definitely more attractive than an immature, game playing one.

I basically agree with everything you've said.

Flibster · 15 May 2006 at 00:32

Cyanide said:
She's in her mid-30's, would you say no?

*Boooiiiinnngggg!!!!*

Kate Beckinsale in Underworld and Underworld 2 does it for me....

However - I preferd the way she looked in Shooting Fish - but the outfits in UW. :eek:

Nothing wrong with older women - I'm 27 - other half is nearly 30...

In fact - most of my other half's have been older than me - by up to 18 years.

Simon/~Flibster

richyfingers · 15 May 2006 at 00:58

secretspy said:
why thank you hehe

edit: can someone please clarify what age is classed as "girls" i hate being called a girl - makes me feel like im a child. and i always get asked "are you a student" no im not, ive been working my butt off for 5 years now!! ( no offense to students i just dont like people assuming that im 21 so i must be student, even happened in staples i bought a bin and some pens and immediately got asked if i was a student!)

I would say girl = 18 and below