finding older women attractive????

Cyanide said:


She's in her mid-30's, would you say no? :D

Erm, of course :confused:

She would get hungry and bit my fella off :o

Also, how can you not find older women attractive? To begin with, a 40yr old has most probably lived her life, she can be educated, have a degree, a good job, family etc. All and all she knows what she wants to do, and she's not a 18yr old attention seeker that realised how being slutty makes guys do/buy things for her.

My Italian teacher was around 43-45, and very, very hot, probably the hottest bird at school.
 
As has been said before, if a woman is attractive, she's attractive regardless of her age.

I lost my cherry at the age of 17 to a woman of 45 and I have yet to find an equal.

Nowadays, I find almost all women attractive - being 40 and "doing without" for a couple of years does that to a man :o

Stan :)
 
LOL! Come on mate, deary me, why on earth are you making apologies for your natural desires? Do you want your life to be defined by your mates or do you want to walk your own path? Stuff what they think, what they think is humbug on stilts. :D
 
I've been out with, slept with, fooled around with several females older than myself. I've even doubled my age before* :P


*quite a while ago though now
 
Bigstan said:
Nowadays, I find almost all women attractive - being 40 and "doing without" for a couple of years does that to a man :o

A wise man, I think known in some circles as "Feek", once famously said that the great thing about getting older is that women become increasingly more attractive.
 
HangTime said:
A wise man, I think known in some circles as "Feek", once famously said that the great thing about getting older is that women become increasingly more attractive.

Never a truer word.............

When I was 20, about 30% of all 20 year old girls were attractive, at 40 it's about 95% :p

Stan :)
 
HangTime said:
I must admit once I reached my mid20s I did start finding women in their early 30s quite appealing. I just find them a lot easier to flirt/have a laugh with than younger girls, because they are generally a bit more mature, much more relaxed and take things at face value. Whereas with your typical late teens girl, it's almost like they are sitting there waiting for you to impress them or something.

It kinda feels like at times that 'girls' think the whole world is revolving around them, and that any man should feel honoured to be speaking to them. Conversations tend to feel a bit awkward and fake. Whereas 'women' are less wary and just generally out for a good time, less worried about looking cool and happy to chat without there being any hidden motives. They have the right level of selfconfidence, not worried about what others think but not arrogant either.

Generalisations to be sure, but that's what I tend to find.

just had to quote this as well, I could'nt agree more.
 
Met my wife when I was 23, she was 34. I'm now 34 and we've been married quite happily for 6 years. Yeah, I guess I dig older woman.

edit: holy crap! I was only 23 then! :eek:
 
richyfingers said:
I would say girl = 18 and below


I've been very surprised at how much girls can 'change' from just being a girl to well, a lady I guess, around 17-18, some maturity hormone must kick in or something (generalising I know). You can see it in the way they chat, the way they dress, how they act etc. Whereas guys pretty much just retain our immaturity :D
 
Most women, with a few exceptions, have really seen better days beyond 30. Hey, if saggy boobs, fat bums and crows feet are your thing, go for it.
I was seeing a really attractive 40 year old last year, yet one morning she came downstairs without makeup and I thought my mum had sneaked in the door for a surprise visit. Laugh? I paid for her taxi.
 
Most of the girls I've gone out with in the last 3 years have been all over 30.

And I'm only 23.

I don't see them as older, just more mature really ... or as a mate would put it, not nuts. :p

I've tried, but younger girls are not worth the hassle (sorry to those young girls who are mature).
 
Bear in mind I am generalising horribly - most people won't be like this but the onesI see out around here seem to be (or maybe they stand out more, dunno).

But... Young women (early twenties / late teens) dress like slappers, get drunk to the point of embarrasment and scream and shout like football hooligans.

I'm sorry, but shouldn't women be the more civilised sex? I don't want to go out with someone who drinks / swears more than I do!

Older women (late twenties / early thirties) dress respectably, behave a little more like women should and don't expect you to buy all the drinks.

I've getting on in years myself now but have held this opinion since University (21 say) - perhaps drunken students from newcastle (Geordies) put me off :)
 
Clearcut said:
Most women, with a few exceptions, have really seen better days beyond 30. Hey, if saggy boobs, fat bums and crows feet are your thing, go for it.
I was seeing a really attractive 40 year old last year, yet one morning she came downstairs without makeup and I thought my mum had sneaked in the door for a surprise visit. Laugh? I paid for her taxi.

That's nonsense tbh. It's much more like 50/50 - look at people like Jennifer Aniston - take a pic of her when she was 23-24 and look at her now. I'd be amazed if you preferred the younger version. Same for Angelina. She looked kinda awkward til she hit her late 20's and now she's a stunning, confident woman. And don't say they are the exceptions, that's not true - many women become far more confident once they get to the end of their 20's and that reflects in the way they dress and look.
 
spike's said:
ok, i think theres something wrong with me.
i am 25 in a couple of weeks. and am suddenly finding older women attractive. ( 30-35.

my mates are starting to take the urine out of me for it.

anyone else have this "problem"?

If you used to find men attractive then yes you have a problem are appear to be confused (Do you like Barbara Streisand?). Otherwise you are perfectly normal & like someone else said here its your mates that are the problem.
 
I'm 33, wife is 33 and she is *damn* hot ;) :p

In fact, she is more attractive to me now than when we got married at 22.

She's kept her figure, I haven't :rolleyes:
 
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