Sorry to bump the thread, just an update as a few people asked if it was confirmed it was suicide. And also a vent as I don’t really have anyone I’m comfortable talking to about it, prefer to talk to strangers, find it easier for whatever reason.
But anyway, the autopsy hasn’t been done yet or it’s in progress so no results. But we found a note in her house yesterday in the room she was found
Was very sad to read, I was hoping there was a note so it wasn’t a knee jerk reaction to something. As horrible as that sounds, I don’t know what I mean by that really, I guess just that it was what she wanted as opposed to something she regretted because it was spontaneous. She even talks about requesting a DNR if someone did find her. But I’m glad she left something and at least explained her actions, not that it makes what she did any better, but still...she addressed us all and talked about how proud she was etc. That was nice, hard to read but nice. Just made it all the more sad though
The note blamed a lot of things but she kept stressing that it wasn’t our fault and that she didn’t blame any of us. I don’t believe a word of it at the moment and still feel it’s all of our fault that no one reached out when she was obviously in need of someone.
Funeral is in 2 weeks, that will be tough.
But at least I feel like I at least have some form of closure now