Forgiving/Forgiveness

Depends on the seriousness of whatevers happened but I've never had any reason to fall out with anybody
 
Benny06 said:
Maybe, but I've found keeping the biterness and resent with you isn't be good long term. Obviously forgive them IF you can when your ready.
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Yeah, I agree.

I think the hardest thing is the guy's attitude. It's his attitude and personality that caused the incident in question in the first place, and unless he actually changes this then I find it very hard to forgive him. Imagine looking the guy in the eye, knowing that he hates you, knowing he'd never apologise for what he's done, and then imagine trying to forgive him for it. It's pretty difficult, but hopefully I'll feel less bitter about it at some point.


edit: the incident in question is complex, but it involves deceit, rumour-spreading and general nastiness. The other party would have course claim the opposite.
 
I have a automatic self defense mechanism which makes me more evil in reaction to specific events... (i.e it is impossible for me to ever feel sad or depressed in any possible situation)

so within a day or so i would go from liking that person and caring about them to feeling absolutely nothing at all about it or them, and certain thoughts i may think at these times if told to lets say a shrink, they would get a gun and shoot themselves in the head.

If postive things happen i will calm down and not be so evil and then will be able to forgive
 
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