David, I'll side with whoever I judge is in the right. I try to remain neutral and objective. You painted a picture of you being a victim, but reading between the lines I could see something else going on, so I used my trade experience to present another side to things to bring some balance to it.
You're moaning on about not getting a free quote. Yet you wrote in your previous replies that he did give you a quote.
Give, not charge.
Give. That means you got your free quote, despite your claims to the contrary. What you didn't get was
free work.
He came along, put eyes on the job, assessed the situation, and gave you a free estimate as far as he was able to, but with a caveat which he appears to have explained. Apparently though, you feel entitled to have people work for free for you, and now you're acting like a spoiled teenager who has been told that the world doesn't work like that; a Kevin.
("It's so unfair!")
Is this below supposed to be the proof of the free quotes thing from their web site? You couldn't even get that right.
You've had a lot of help from me and from other forum members, both in this thread and in your HDMI thread. However, if you expect the world to dance to your tune then this might not be the forum for you. We're a patient lot, and I think folk here bend over backwards to help. However, the guys here are pretty smart too. They're used to solving more complex problems, and so it's easy for them to see through stories that don't add up. If you want nodding dogs, go to a toy store.
You're at a crossroads here, and you have choice about the way you go forward. One way is to be a man about it, and to admit you let emotion get the better of you. The other way is less dignified, and it results in you cutting off your own nose to spite your face. The outcome of that is that you're the only one injured. Is that really what you want?