GF dilemma

ChrisD. · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:36

OK. Been single 3 months now. Got two women on the go (not slept with either - yet) and I like them both. I'm 26.

Anyway, woman 1:

27, lives near Leicester so a bit of a treck from me. Into ALL of the same things as me, has a good job, good laugh etc. Lives alone, but has been a bit funny with me recently.

Woman 2:

18 (but she acts more mature then me (not hard I know), has been though a lot), lives 5 mins up the road, into similar things. But she's at college, works in a bar part time, lives with her Dad and I have a feeling she might end up being hard work.

So, what do I do? Bedding them both is definitely an option. I'm meeting candidate 2 on Sat night in town and again on Monday. Meeting candidate 1 later on this month half way between mine and hers at some Hotel. I'm not into two timing as that'd be way too confusing.

Anyway, discuss. I await the usual scathing attacks and funny suggestions.

BTW, I'm not really after a relationship as I've enjoyed being single (not bed hopping), and I don't want something that's not failful either. Just want someone as my GF and it's not massively serious.

Raymond Lin · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:38

Just wing it until you know.

Neoni · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:38

MilanoChris said:
OK. Been single 3 months now. Got two women on the go (not slept with either - yet) and I like them both. I'm 26.

Anyway, woman 1:

27, lives near Leicester so a bit of a treck from me. Into ALL of the same things as me, has a good job, good laugh etc. Lives alone, but has been a bit funny with me recently.

Woman 2:

18 (but she acts more mature then me (not hard I know), has been though a lot), lives 5 mins up the road, into similar things. But she's at college, works in a bar part time, lives with her Dad and I have a feeling she might end up being hard work.

So, what do I do? Bedding them both is definitely an option. I'm meeting candidate 2 on Sat night in town and again on Monday. Meeting candidate 1 later on this month half way between mine and hers at some Hotel. I'm not into two timing as that'd be way too confusing.

Anyway, discuss. I await the usual scathing attacks and funny suggestions.

BTW, I'm not really after a relationship as I've enjoyed being single (not bed hopping), and I don't want something that's not failful either. Just want someone as my GF and it's not massively serious.

Scumbag.

Moley · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:38

Bed them both. Whoever is the best = win.

ChrisD. · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:39

Raymond Lin said:
Just wing it until you know.

Yeah. Hmm, there's a candidate 3 that I've not heard from in weeks that's just text though I view her as filth. CBA meeting her though.

ChrisD. · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:39

Moley said:
Bed them both. Whoever is the best = win.

Delvis · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:40

Charming =/

I can't stand people who do this, but I think differently so hey.

Each to they're own obviously

neil3k · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:40

I propose a threesome

ChrisD. · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:40

Delvis said:
Charming =/

I can't stand people who do this, but I think differently so hey.

Each to they're own obviously

Who do what? I've not done anything wrong in my eyes. I'm single and not attached to anyone.

TripleT · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:41

Bed them both.

You have to take them for a test ride first

What happens if you bell off Bird 1 or 2 before bedding them and they turn out to be an animal in the sack?!

Neoni · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:41

MilanoChris said:
Who do what? I've not done anything wrong in my eyes. I'm single and not attached to anyone.

On about bedding both of them, possibly a third.

Scum.

ChrisD. · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:42

Neoni said:
On about bedding both of them, possibly a third.

Scum.

I've had the chance to bed number 1 already but didn't as I don't want to rush into anything.

Delvis · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:42

MilanoChris said:
Who do what? I've not done anything wrong in my eyes. I'm single and not attached to anyone.

Indeed

Long as you don't go into the relationship stage

that's when it becomes and 'issue', for you anyway, as you have to hide one of them from the other.

Do what you want matey, entirely your choice

stoofa · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:42

Now if I was going to actually post a proper reply to this thread I'd like to go into details about how what you are doing is just so wrong and what you are planning on doing is even worse - scumbag is certainly one description.

However, this is OcUK and I think the only thing to do is to make a post the majority of people (because of their maturity) relate to:

Ba*g um both and choose the best!!

On the other hand maybe you should actually start acting like a 26yr old rather than a 16yr old?

Welshy · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:42

How long a treck are we talking? Option 1 seems by far the better option to me.

ChrisD. · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:43

Think I'll go with the flow. I'm rubbish at planning things.

ChrisD. · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:44

stoofa said:
Now if I was going to actually post a proper reply to this thread I'd like to go into details about how what you are doing is just so wrong and what you are planning on doing is even worse - scumbag is certainly one description.

Please do. I don't mind.

Knubje · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:45

This thread has two main responces imo:

OP, you should be ashamed of yourself, etc! How dare you! I've met murderers and rapists who are better off than you! You make me sick! Does your mother know about this?!?

OR:

Nail them both, TTIUWP, Pasty smash, Threesome, etc

ChrisD. · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:45

Welshy said:
How long a treck are we talking? Option 1 seems by far the better option to me.

3 hours to hers from mine, about 150 ish miles from memory.

ChrisD. · 2 Oct 2008 at 16:46

I really don't see how what I'm doing is wrong. I'm not "going out" with either of them am I? If I was two timing I could see the issue but I'm not...