GF problems!
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Well I'd say shes an idiot, he mates seem a bit thick too. If shes hot, bang her, if you want a proper GF and like them thick by all means, lot more hassle then brighter birds.
Just ignore it, I mean seriously your a 23 year old man.
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Good point maybe try and matchmake a few of them. There is a disproportionate amount of single very handsome well hung individuals who haunt these very boards. (disclaimer - this is all lies apart from myabe being single - no proof required)
I never said I was bothered by it. Just thought 'idiots' to myself and carried on smiling.
If she doesn't care of her friends options, then they aren't friends, 'mates' would describe it better, people who you go out with to clubs etc, but not people you trust or care about.
Get some new ones, or tell her to see what they do.
Yes they are and there is a good reason for that aswell. They are all bunny boiling 'female dogs'. My mate got together with one of them for a very short while. He came out of it frightened! Bless him.
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Sounds like she needs to grow up to me.
Explain?
Not getting defensive of my gf just think perhaps I've made her out to be the immature one when honestly, it is her mates that need to grow up.
I have just e-mailed her telling her to ignore it if her friends spit their dummies out. lol. Lets see what reply I get.
If she doesn't care of her friends opinions, then they aren't friends, 'mates' would describe it better, people who you go out with to clubs etc, but not people you trust or care about.
Get some new ones, or tell her to see what they do.
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Perhap's theyre just trying to protect their friend from some one with a track record of playing away? These are consequences you brought on your self. It depends on how petty they are being but its not for you to criticise them, especially given your technically the bad guy here.
Prove them wrong and earn their trust and respect over time. Be civil. Also remember that while her friends are a factor, your not having a relationship with them, just with the GF - so stand your ground and act in the best interests of your GF. If your genuine, that will mean being there for your GF and being prepared to work for her trust. The GF is feeling pretty torn right now. Be appreciative of that fact.
I have been fully understanding about how they might be feeling about what happened at the pub. I know I am not gonna be in their good books and am more than prepared to wear the label they have given me until I prove otherwise. I just find it slightly ridiculous that she won't see me tomorrow night because of how they will be with her. She has already said she isn't going out because of her money situation, I just offered to keep her company since I have no plans either.
Secondly, I'm agreeing with the prove yourself over time.
Don't not see your GF on the grounds her friends might get the wrong idea, it's not their relationship is it?
Go out, have fun, don't put your tongue in any other girls mouth's and it'll be 'reet.
Don't not see your GF on the grounds her friends might get the wrong idea, it's not their relationship is it?
Go out, have fun, don't put your tongue in any other girls mouth's and it'll be 'reet.
There's the reason...
Just put your gf first and ignore their 'issues'. Actually go out, have fun make her laugh and let them look on
I thought u'd drop by and have a say
I've tried telling her that but she doesn't get it. Just sees it that I'm being unreasonable. If she chooses to not see me because of her friends opinions then good luck to a long and lasting relationship for myself and her.