Girl/Friend problem

WatchTower said:
What I say to females that I'm intrested in is

"Hi mmmm ahhh errr dodada shhhh errr"

Then I fall over.
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I have no problem talking to girls I am interested in, just hard time working out what they want. My last girlfriend got me like this (At this point I thought she was after someone else):

Her - Men are so rubbish about working out what women want.
Me - Thats because we are all terrible at this subtlety you lot throw around. Its too cloak and dagger, if you want a bloke to know something you pretty much have to tell him.
Her - Ok
Her - I think I have fallen for you, want to go out sometime?
Me - :eek:
 
M0T said:
I have no problem talking to girls I am interested in, just hard time working out what they want. My last girlfriend got me like this (At this point I thought she was after someone else):

Her - Men are so rubbish about working out what women want.
Me - Thats because we are all terrible at this subtlety you lot throw around. Its too cloak and dagger, if you want a bloke to know something you pretty much have to tell him.
Her - Ok
Her - I think I have fallen for you, want to go out sometime?
Me - :eek:
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if every girl does that, it will save a lot of hassle !
 
M0T said:
I have no problem talking to girls I am interested in, just hard time working out what they want. My last girlfriend got me like this (At this point I thought she was after someone else):

Her - Men are so rubbish about working out what women want.
Me - Thats because we are all terrible at this subtlety you lot throw around. Its too cloak and dagger, if you want a bloke to know something you pretty much have to tell him.
Her - Ok
Her - I think I have fallen for you, want to go out sometime?
Me - :eek:
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Teach me how, teach me HOW!

I'm SO using your little speech in the future ;)
 
She was certainly 'different'. Her honesty was completely refreshing when everyone else never said what they meant.

Alas that relationship was doomed really being as she was 8 years older than me...
 
M0T said:
She was certainly 'different'. Her honesty was completely refreshing when everyone else never said what they meant.

Alas that relationship was doomed really being as she was 8 years older than me...
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Bah you never told me that bit :p
 
I think her age helped with the honesty, women seem to be much better at just going with their feelings rather than the forked tongues of the girls my age.
 
M0T said:
Well we talked and she said that basically because she really missed having someone she had been acting a bit strangely towards me, but she didn't see me in that way and was sorry for leading me on.

Back to the drawing board!
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Typical split-arse :(

I'd say, "Right-O. Bye-bye!"

And just like that <pfft>, I'd be gone.
 
Argh! She told me that I misunderstood what she meant and that that wasn't what she meant at all.

So obviously I thought that meant that I had a chance so I have spent the last few days with her, but nothing happened. I would say things to her and she would giggle and blush like a naughty school girl, but she pulled away every time I tried to get closer to her.

Definatly an attention whore. She probably told me that was not what she meant so I would come and spend time with her. She still seems to want to be friends with me but I don't get the whole point of the leading me on again thing. Oh well at least she cooked me dinner...
 
M0T said:
Right I have this female friend who a couple of months ago told me she just wanted to be friends with me nothing more. However in the last week or so she has been acting different, and if she hadn't said what she did about just being friends then I would be pretty sure she was after me.

Because of what she said I am not entirely sure how to go about finding out, if I ask her and it turns out she is just being a bit weird then I risk wrecking our friendship, on the other hand if I do nothing then she may think I'm not interested.

What do I do?
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Tell her that she is being too friendly and you need to define clear boundrys...

Stelly
 
M0T said:
Right I have this female friend who a couple of months ago told me she just wanted to be friends with me nothing more. However in the last week or so she has been acting different, and if she hadn't said what she did about just being friends then I would be pretty sure she was after me.

Because of what she said I am not entirely sure how to go about finding out, if I ask her and it turns out she is just being a bit weird then I risk wrecking our friendship, on the other hand if I do nothing then she may think I'm not interested.

What do I do?
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Flirt, be charming, portray confidence. The usual things when you're trying to pull. If there's a moment, go for it. What's the worst that can happen :/

Ant :cool:
 
Bar said:
RAPE!!! RAPE!!! He tried to touch my girly bits!!! RAPE!! RAPE!!!

edit: wonder if Dr Pepper would ever do an advert like this...
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He tried to touch my Dr Pepper pot

{queue music and...

DR PEPPER SO MISUNDERSTOOD}

:confused:
 
Raymond Lin said:
She wants attention, simple as. Soon she finds a boy she fancies and also likes her back, who happens to be NOT you, she'll stop the flirting. .
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Absolutely agree, it happened to me before I met my wife. The girl in question stopped seeing me as soon as a "real" boyfriend came along, but then came running back when it went wrong, saying things like "I really wish he was like you" etc etc etc. I took this stuff from her for a couple of years but it got too much. In the end I made a decision to be nobody's doormat from then on and I cut all contact with her. It was the best decision I ever made, as it provided me with closure for the whole thing and boosted my confidence like crazy. Within a few weeks I met a wonderful girl, who went on to become my wife and I have never looked back. :cool: :)
 
WantoN said:
No offense, but I'd only hear that once.
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None taken.

When she started with the "I wish he was like you....." BS, i'd remind her that I was available and right there in front of her. She of course would knock me back and give it all the "I don't see you that way" stuff, but then get VERY touchy and kissy (and I do mean VERY) when a boyfriend wasn't on the scene.
Still, I see it all as my fault for being soft enough to allow it to happen to me.

Lesson learned as they say, and learned very very well. :)

OP, run a mile and don't look back.
 
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This happened to me about 4 weeks ago - there was abit of tension between me and a ggod friend of mine so we went and got really trashed, woke up with her in bed and we're goin out now - though she went to Croatia yesterday and her mum hates me with a passion. Other than that its all gravy.
 
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