Girlfrend not wanting to drive to me anymore !

Thekwango said:
What the good ****

Please tell me you meant to put a 'lol' or 2 in there as in you were joking?

'Tell her to learn her place & manners because women with kids don't throw demands to men without baggage'

Jesus I've never heard anything as misogynistic as that in my life.
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Ok so then she should be able to throw out demands like buy a car within six months? Haha ok let him do it and what if she walks? They live 30mins apart and have been dating six months.


Red flags everywhere and it aint sexist to tell her no.
 
tom_e said:
While this is true, the whole "I need a guy to drive me around, my ex did!" statement is just a load of crap and it's time for her to go.
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yep this.

but tell her your ex gf used to drive you every where and you need some one who can also do that. equal rights and all that... :p
 
Rofflay said:
Ok so then she should be able to throw out demands like buy a car within six months? Haha ok let him do it and what if she walks? They live 30mins apart and have been dating six months.


Red flags everywhere and it aint sexist to tell her no.
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Yes there are red flags everywhere but your post just is just ride with pure vitriol toward women and in particular single women with kids. They ain't all monsters you know
 
Rofflay said:
Why should he buy a car when she has one though? She is being unreasonable and the best bit is she is one of those birds who has a kid by another man too!??! Give give give typical women! Tell her to learn her place & manners because women with kids dont throw demands to men without baggage.


She should be lucky you are there putting up with her kid so i would call it a fair trade no?
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Why don't you learn your place and crawl back under your muddy rock?
 
Rofflay said:
Why should he buy a car when she has one though?
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Because they don't live together so the fact she has one doesn't really help him. If his mobility is sufficiently constrained by the lack of a car that he is unable to even visit his girlfriend 30 minutes away, then a car would be far more beneficial to him than just permitting him to visit her!
 
Rofflay said:
Why should he buy a car when she has one though? She is being unreasonable and the best bit is she is one of those birds who has a kid by another man too!??! Give give give typical women! Tell her to learn her place & manners because women with kids dont throw demands to men without baggage.


She should be lucky you are there putting up with her kid so i would call it a fair trade no?
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:D

On the other hand: :mad: My daughter has to grow up in a world which contains guys like this :(
 
OP, I would be more inclined to suggest you go the way of the samurai here, meaning don't put up with nonsense and tell her to deal with it, or to go forth and multiply.

You want to go down the route where she feels like she is doing you some massive favour by driving out to see you, be my guest, but simply put it is a red flag for the future.

Only you can decide what you want to put up with, but the guys who are saying here on this thread "get out", "kick her to the kerb"...well they somewhat have a point, don't you think?
 
make her drive to you then sack her off and tell her to do one and drive away again. Its the only way to be sure. If she gives you any grief be alpha and take a dump through her letterbox and throw some mustard on her windows..........................
 
Why can't you get public transport 50% of the time to see her again?.

Apologies if this has already been explained, I've searched over the thread & found nothing.
 
I'm out of breath reading that... I broke it up into bits for people to read properly..

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I've been in a relationship now with my partner for 6months and she lives about a 30min drive from me. I do have a license but don't currently have a car as I feel its a waste of money , ever since we been together she has driven to me.

Lately she has started to moan saying she doesn't want to drive too me all the time , ( Only see her weekends as she has a daughter ) So I have a few times now gone and got a Bus too her and I have also said to her that Ill pay for her fuel , I've spoken to her about it and her reply is ! I need a guy who can drive me around WTF !

My Ex use to drive me every was her reply ! , She has also moaned at me because I didn't drive a hire car when we went abroad last month , again I said to her a number of times ,do you want me to drive with her reply na im ok.

I feel like I'm the one making all the effort in the relationship now , and it starting to **** me of if im honest , I feel like I just want to call it a day as over the past month I;ve seen her maybe 3 times , I'm at that stage now where If I miss a week as she doesn't want to drive.

I don't see her for 12 days , We text everyday to each other thou but she never calls me , and its the same text every day how is your day ? boring boring boring , When we are together don't get me wrong we are very close and get on brilliantly.

The other options is I just get a car and drive her around to keep her happy lol ! The thing is , if this was the other way around and she didn't drive Id drive to her every weekend np at all ! So this does **** me of a little and the fact I've offered to give her fuel money as well....
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Phew, I can have my breath back now. :D
OP .... do what you feel is right.
 
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