Girlfrend not wanting to drive to me anymore !

james.miller said:
It can work but it is hard work. I wasn't driving when I first met my partner - she lived 50 miles away. It wasn't easy and she wasn't a bus journey away but we made it work.

We're now married, living together and have a 4 year old son :)
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Indeed. A good friend of mine got together with a girl from the US. Very long distance relationship! He now lives over there - they are married have a young son and a 2nd baby on the way.

You just have to both be pulling in the same direction, i guess :)
 
I was with an ex girlfriend for 4 years, she was 470 miles away, I use to fly there often ( partly because I like traveling lol).

She had a car but family were rather strict so her getting away for a couple days at a time regularly was a bitch, so many things complicate long distance relationships.
In the end we only broke up due to cultural reasons.
 
Op feels like he is putting all the effort in.... girlfriend spent the last 6 months driving to his house to see him.

Op I can see why she's getting the hump with you, driving is hassle at the best of times for most people, I'm guessing you are hardly and avid driving enthusiast with your current lack of wheels.
 
jasonsony735 said:
Ha Ha I never expected an honest reply from anyone on this forum to be fair :P I just like asking odd questions and seeing how imaginative you all are :)

And if I am honest we have not had a single argument in 6 months , that's a first for me and bloody good I think , We haven't even argued about this matte , its just been mentioned by her that she would like me to get a car so its 50 - 50 witch is totally understandable.

Thanks for the advice its been an interesting read haha
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So in other words, your OP was complete and utter elbow-flapping BS? You made out as though the world was ending.

I'm guessing your girlfriend is in fact possibly the sane and mature one, as judging by your posts and literary ability you appear to have the developmental age of a thirteen year old.
 
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She's just become less attracted to you because it's fairly immasculating for a Man to be driven everywhere by his girlfriend, just buy a cheap car, from your post it's obvious you live with your parents and can afford it anyway
 
cheesyboy said:
:D

On the other hand: :mad: My daughter has to grow up in a world which contains guys like this :(
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And that is a problem why? I only insulted his women and women with kids who date and act like they are still prime real estate. Now if i said she deserved a good bish bash bosh i could see the problem.


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Rofflay said:
Why should he buy a car when she has one though? She is being unreasonable and the best bit is she is one of those birds who has a kid by another man too!??! Give give give typical women! Tell her to learn her place & manners because women with kids dont throw demands to men without baggage.


She should be lucky you are there putting up with her kid so i would call it a fair trade no?
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Rofflay said:
And that is a problem why? I only insulted his women and women with kids who date and act like they are still prime real estate. Now if i said she deserved a good bish bash bosh i could see the problem.


:confused:
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This is an appalling attitude to women. Just because someone might be a lone parent does not mean they are deducted points as it does in this deranged world you imagine.
 
RoboCod said:
This is an appalling attitude to women. Just because someone might be a lone parent does not mean they are deducted points as it does in this deranged world you imagine.
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Most single men do not want the responsibility of dealing with a kid or dating a mother. In my current situation, a woman with a child is less appealing than one that doesn't have a child. My view may change in time.
 
Nitefly said:
Most single men do not want the responsibility of dealing with a kid or dating a mother. In my current situation, a woman with a child is less appealing than one that doesn't have a child. My view may change in time.
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You didn't need to explain that to me, it's quite obvious, I have been a young single male before also (even dated the odd girl with child). However, to label them as lower individuals is just pathetic.
 
Rofflay said:
Why should he buy a car when she has one though? She is being unreasonable and the best bit is she is one of those birds who has a kid by another man too!??! Give give give typical women! Tell her to learn her place & manners because women with kids dont throw demands to men without baggage.


She should be lucky you are there putting up with her kid so i would call it a fair trade no?
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That's an appaling attitude.
 
pepsilol said:
On a potential partner scale they will be lower..?
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Absolutely, it's just these comments that bother me...

Tell her to learn her place & manners because women with kids dont throw demands to men without baggage.

She should be lucky you are there putting up with her kid so i would call it a fair trade no?

I only insulted his women and women with kids who date and act like they are still prime real estate.
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When in fact, she might be the sexiest, most intelligent and interesting woman he'll ever meet in his life. The attitude that she should be grateful he is giving her any attention because she has a child, like she is some lower class peasant scum, instead just suggests that some people are morons. I suspect either a severe lack of maturity, outright misogynist or both.

I'm not even putting it on a pedestal here, I've met many a vile women who take advantage of men, but from the sounds of things here the OP is doing rather well in this setup considering his GF is driving everywhere in this relationship. Time for a few people to grow up here I think.
 
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