Going clubbing alone?

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Hi

I'm in a bit of a predictment :(

i have these 3 mates and nearly every Friday for the last 4-5 years we have gone out clubbing

but a few months ago one of my mates got a GF
not just any GF he thinks she might be "the one" :rolleyes:

anyway it was left with just the 3 of us going (he would come along sometimes but rarely)

anyway 4 weeks ago another one of my mates got a GF and now he hardly comes out anymore as she likes to keep him on a tight leash

and then 2 weeks ago my last mate found a new love interest at work and now he doesn't want to come out anymore

so here we are on another Friday (also my birthday :() and i really don't have anyone to go out with so I'm left with 2 options

i can either stay at home or go clubbing alone

I'm pretty quiet and shy and find it hard to try and chat up girls if my mates arnt there to back me up if you get what i mean :(

you think i should go?

would it mate me look pathetic to the women if I'm out alone

thanks :mad:
 
you could always go on your own, and when your in the club and chatting to a nice lady, tell her that you have lost your mates but they are around somewhere ...

edit: sexybetty is right, if they are your mates, they should be with you on your birthday
 
SexyBetty said:
Call them mates? They wont come out for your birthday? Id go mad :mad:
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Yeah you would think at least one of them would come out, i would also be mad been in a similar situation. :mad:
 
Sem, I was in the same position and used to do it all the time. I was quite successful with the ladies too. When they asked who I was with, I would say 'my brother' Then I would pretend to look for him and tell her that I had lost him whilst I was talking to her. It would usually end up with them feeling guilty and taking me home. ;)
 
Yeah dude it's your birthday, you can all go out, they can bring their girls too and you can have good fun.
 
I'd never dream of going out clubbing alone, mainly for the reason that like you I'm quite shy and have horrible visions of sitting to one side all night drinking alone and getting depressed. Yet I have often thought that if I were to go out alone that a) I'd have more incentive to go and actually approach women because I didn't have anything else to do (like messing about with mates) and b) be less afraid of rejection as nobody I knew would be there to see it. So there's possible reasons for and against!
As for looking pathetic, well that's one for the women to answer, I guess it could look kind of bad, would imagine it depends on the woman.

EDIT: Oh yeah, forgot to mention your mates suck too.
 
As Morrissey put it... there's a club if you'd like to go, you could meet somebody who really loves you. So you go and you stand on your own, and you leave on your own, and you go home and you cry and you want to die. Mind you Morrissey has always been a bit of a miserable sod, or more accurately a rich miserable sod.
 
Come to think of it, Ive been in a club on my own before cos my mates went home early. Ended up chatting to this guy who seemed really nice, next minute, this girl came over and wholloped him one in the face!!!!

I made my excuses and scarpered :D
 
Go out dude!!

I went clubbing in Koko in Camden on my own a couple of months ago, ended up pulling a hawt Aussie chick :D

It's so sweet, you get attention from chicks just cos you are on your own, so take full advantage of it and wrap 'em round your finger (or any other appendage!)
 
Your mates suck, go out and find some cheerful people. While your at it you can high-five the ladies.

Anyways, Happy Birthday.
 
You're trying to tell us your "mates" can'y even get themselves out on your birthday?

Seems like they weren't really mates then to be honest...
 
Well, you know, you could sit around at home, moping about it, bored, lonely ... or ... You could have a profound realisation and, say to yourself I need new friends, and then, do something about it, right now.

Absolutely I think you should GO. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. What you fail to realise is, this is a fantastic opportunity to meet new people and make new friends. All you have to do is, see this fact. Now that you see it, can you imagine yourself sitting at home being extremely bored and lonely, or on the other hand ... Imagine yourself out, having a fantastic time, meeting new people and making new friends. Which one do you pick? Obviously, you are going to pick GOing out and, meeting new people and making new friends. GO do it!
 
well I've decided to go alone :rolleyes:

nothing good on TV and nothing better to do

I'm going to try some local places first
then probably go to Leicester Square or some other place in central London


boy it sucks to be me :( :mad:
 
Rich_L said:
Go out dude!!

I went clubbing in Koko in Camden on my own a couple of months ago, ended up pulling a hawt Aussie chick :D

It's so sweet, you get attention from chicks just cos you are on your own, so take full advantage of it and wrap 'em round your finger (or any other appendage!)
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Not everyone is as Smoooooooooth as you are ;)
 
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