Dear me.
Take dog abuse but you give something back and it's wrong. Didn't think you were such a bleeding heart DM.
Well done for not reading properly. Ref's swear at players, players swear at refs, you see it CONSTANTLY in games and have done for years. I have no problem.
When a ref decides to show different treatment for a particular group of players, that isn't bleeding heart anything, it's completely unprofessional bull crap.
The ref makes a completely incorrect call, a player calls him on it.... he singles out the player for having changed because he's played for England..... there isn't any problem there at all. Except the ref clearly has a bias towards England players and is stopping any dialogue with the player for a completely unacceptable reason.
Player "that was a ******* penalty"
ref "no it ******* wasn't, **** off"
this happens constantly, I have no issue. Ref's have been giving it back forever.
Player "that was a ******* penalty"
ref "i clearly saw/didn't see it, it wasn't/couldn't give a penalty"
fine
Player "that was a ******* penalty"
ref "you've become such a **** since you played for England"
sorry, no, he's showing a bias against the particular player and bringing a dislike into his job, in this case he is fobbing the player off NOT because he didn't think it was a penalty, or because he couldn't give it, he decided he didn't want to converse with the player for something entirely seperate. In this case the ref was also making completely the wrong call, the player has every right to talk to the ref about it, the ref dismisses him for non footballing reasons. Absolutely, completely unacceptable.