And replace with pictures of yourself...Take them down one by one see if anyone notices.
Edit: nah do the one above
Also TTIUWP
And replace with pictures of yourself...Take them down one by one see if anyone notices.
To get to the point, I have three young (well, late teens and early 20's) nieces. For the past 3-4 years, for birthdays and Christmas, they have been giving out pictures of themselves as gifts (as the only gift to the person for either event). They do this specifically with my mother, their grandmother, but do it with other family members also. It's always a collective picture with the three of them in it. In pretty much every picture at least two of them are drinking alcohol (as in holding bottles of beer etc), in several at least one of them is clearly drunk. So it isn't even a case of them going to a photographer or making a point of having a nice photograph taken, they're literally just printouts of pictures they've taken on their phones while on a night out.
These photos are literally covering my mothers walls, she only lives in a small bungalow, they're not being requested by her as she already has a million pictures of everyone in the family anyway. When she doesn't immediately put them up one of the girls pitches a fit as though my mother is being ungrateful or doesn't love them. When I look at them, all I can think is that it's painfully narcissistic and very cheap.
I think you should put mocking captions over the top of the pictures such as 'Look at Me! Look at Me! Look at me!' and 'Present substitute' just before they come round and then watch the fireworks fly.
This is social media for you. The wife is having her Mrs. Bucket soiree tomorrow night, a family "friend" historically spends the whole night taking digital photos on time lapse, nearly all including his inane grinning self, with a David Bailey intensity, several of which he then sends as custom Christmas cards. I promised myself last year I'd tell him to stick the device where the sun never shines. I'll let you know if I am emboldened enough to face the post party wrath from `er indoors to see this through! If I chicken out an accident with a pint of dark beer and his device will be a good second best. My sympathies. Digital cameras are a curse, an expensive trip to the developers made a photo at least thoughtful financially, if not artistically.
I like it, I've had a few beers to numb the thought of tomorrow night, so my boldness may waver in favor of a quiet night, we'll see... There's a lot of ale in the fridge. Don't let them grind you down
My brother does this to my parents. Every year for Christmas gets them a picture of him, his wife and the kids.
My mother won’t say anything but it winds me right up. I mean this woman brought you up for 25 years and the best you can do is a god awful picture of your flipping wife and kids every single year.
It’s the fact that it’s given as the actual and only Christmas present that winds me up. Yes we give my parents the obligatory school photo of our kid every year but it’s not presented as some kind of present.... especially a Christmas present of all things.
And it’s not like my folks are that hard to buy for. Dad loves Lego. Providing Lego keep making new sets every year he is literally the easiest person to buy for.
Send them all a photo of your Johnston for Xmas in kind.
a bit weirdly incestuous do you not think?Send them all a photo of your Johnston for Xmas in kind.
might also send a message to the police that you need to be on some sort of 'watch' listMay send a msg to them to stop sending photos of themselves though.
Narcissists, cheapskates or both. It would definitely not sit well with me.
I think what you've described is what gets to me the most. The girls are all working now par the youngest, and my mother has spent a small fortune on them over the years. Still does every year, sometimes to somewhat expensive requests for Christmas or birthdays despite the fact she's a pensioner.