I'd be ****** sure, and would make damn sure i got any kids/mutual assets, but i wouldn't wan her put to death, as I would still in all likely hood lover her, and as such not want to see her brutally murdered.
edit: I think the kids will be more ****e off at their dad having their mother murdered tbh.
Plenty of people on here and people i know IRL have had parents split up, all perfectly fine, many of them them here in uni, with 2 loving parents still.
Not everyone just goes right that it kids your mums left me pack your bags and **** off i don't love you any more,
Adultery is so common in this country, thats why people such as yourself see it being kinda normal. But on Islamic countries where its rare and from day 1 strong and brutal punishment was introduced.