This is so hideously a cliche thing to say but...
Are you not attracted to what you are and it's really out of your control what that is?
No I'm not saying pedophilic stuff is fine before I get that accusation...
Obviously there must be base physical attraction but that percentage quickly becomes less important as you get to know the person.
Lots of eye contact, a well made-up pair of eyes goes a long way for me. Bonus points.
Are you not attracted to what you are and it's really out of your control what that is?
No I'm not saying pedophilic stuff is fine before I get that accusation...
Obviously there must be base physical attraction but that percentage quickly becomes less important as you get to know the person.
Lots of eye contact, a well made-up pair of eyes goes a long way for me. Bonus points.