Heart broken

sorry to hear that mate. I am currently going through a VERY similar situation and know exactly how it feels (im 22 and have been with the missus for 4 years and recently we had the, i feel like were more like friends now). It's not easy and im sturggling at the moment too.. maybe me and you can hook up and get over them together, lols

EDIT- wow there are a lot of poeple in similar boats in this thread...
 
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Believe it or not people get heartbroken all the time - see how many songs are usually sung about such things...!

It is always hard, especially after a long time (like, over 2 years). I never want to break up again.
 
Metalface Mark said:
Sounds like a created argument to help her emotionally detach from you.

As has been stated, most women are completely bonkers mad.
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Im not sure, she didnt really seem to give two hoots about me after she sent the original "this is not working text" she had even contact me until that point.
 
Well I went out with this younger girl last night. Surprisingly mature for her age it seems, also very well spoken (can tell she's been brought up well).

Really liked her, hopefully i'll see her again. She was quiet at times but that could have been because me and my mate were constantly rambling on about something. She text me when she got in to say thanks and she had a nice time etc, so we'll see.

One things for sure, I am hardly thinking about my ex recently, and when I do it doesn't bother me as this other girl has completely taken my mind off her.
 
Seen her a couple more times since. Really really like her but I keep managing to do something stupid everytime I see her (latest is me reversing into her wall last night and messing my car up, impressive).

Anyway, she's 17, off to uni next September. So obviously I want to try and not get too attached but how the **** can you do that? I can already feel myself getting into the relationship zone so to speak. I'm very pessimistic about it all after the last experience, I know all girls are different but I can't help but think if we do get serious it'll just end in tears yet again.

Or should I just not worry and enjoy the fact that I no longer feel like absolute ****? :)
 
Stop thinking so much about the relationship with the new bird as that will get in the way of actually just enjoying the relationship with her which is all you need to do:)
 
I'd just have some fun mate, and try to avoid getting into anything serious and let it progress by itself.

She's 17 and going to Uni, how far away will she be living? I've seen a few relationships under strain due to the fact the girl just wants to enjoy herself and be single at university.

But then again, if she's crazy about you and you both think it's 'right' - you could give it a go.
 
Sheffield is her first choice, about 90 minutes away.

Oh and regarding the ex. It was my birthday Friday. Got a card from her mum and dad, and one from her sister and her husband. Not one from her though, classy. Never done a thing to hurt that bitch, despicable human being :)

However, i'll be sending her a christmas card just to show I have something about me :)
 
Ripper said:
Sheffield is her first choice, about 90 minutes away.

Oh and regarding the ex. It was my birthday Friday. Got a card from her mum and dad, and one from her sister and her husband. Not one from her though, classy. Never done a thing to hurt that bitch, despicable human being :)

However, i'll be sending her a christmas card just to show I have something about me :)
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Or do this! :)


90 minutes is do-able. See how things go.
 
Ripper said:
Oh and regarding the ex. It was my birthday Friday. Got a card from her mum and dad, and one from her sister and her husband. Not one from her though, classy. Never done a thing to hurt that bitch, despicable human being :)

However, i'll be sending her a christmas card just to show I have something about me :)
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Been considering the idea of wether to send my ex an xmas card or not.
Havnt decided yet tbh. :p.
 
Why is it? I just think it shows a bit of class and that I'm a gentleman.

i.e "you didn't send me a card, you are a complete bitch, but i wont sink to your level, merry xmas :)" will be the meaning behind it.

:D
 
Or just let it go, unless you want to hear from her again then there is no point making contact. You seem like a good guy so any short term feeling of revenge will soon be replaced by feeling like a bit of a t**t and if she replies then on past form it will be you that gets hurt.

Have some fun with the new girl, 90 minutes is do-able but a LOT can/will happen at uni so try not to get too attached.
 
boheme said:
Nooo nononono. They'll just think that they're still high priority and have got one over you! They'll be like 'Ha, pathetic, he still wants me. Who wouldn't.' :D - Unless you're actually real friends with the ex..


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I suppose that Ripper could send the xmas card to 'Ex + Family' etc. That's fine! To ex alone is sheer madness.
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I was considering sending one for her entire family, so mum+dad, brother+his missis, her +her new bf.
Im hesitant to do so though, as i did say i didnt want to see/hear/talk to her ever again. :p. So sending a card sorta defeats the idea of that. :p.
 
Ripper said:
Last night my girlfriend of 3.5 years told me she's not sure if she feels the same way anymore. I'd seen it coming and felt dodgy for the past two weeks but just tried to make myself think that it was me being paranoid.

Snip'di'do
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Well it looks like this is your first major relationship, so yeah it's going to feel crappy, and unfortunatley there's no way to get around that:( Just try and rearrange your life a little, concentrate more on work or something for a few months. I'd say cutting people off is quite harsh, but doing it for a short period might be a good option. Why don't go out for some rebound booty, boosts the confidence!
 
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