As others have said those alternatives are, without exception, completely drab. You ask whether or not the HRV is feminine looking....for some time my own personal pet name for them has been HRTs and thats because the drivers I see are all middle aged women.
As for the Kia...well that companys new found 'success' seems to be based on people on a tight budget buying these cheap soft roaders and that amuses me for all the reasons Fox has previously stated.
The Mitsi seems quite an unusual choice but I know nothing about it other than that it looks deeply weird with that front end. Wow! - just looked at the additional pictures you've linked to - you really think thats a good looking vehicle? It still looks very very silly to me but each to their own!
Like another poster I am quite surprised that you think a Forrester is a bad looking car next to the ones you've shortlisted but thats the nature of subjective taste I guess. Personally I think all soft roaders and 4x4s look rank
so its much of a muchness but at least the Subarus utilitarian looks are in keeping with the (supposed) point of this type of vehicle so for that reason (and the performance and noise) I'd definitely choose the Subaru. Actually though I'm not sure you could get an S-Turbo for 5k so maybe thats a moot point?
As others have said I really really implore you to consider buying a car rather than any of these vehicles for a multitude of reasons: handling, performance, economy to name but three. Unless your need for the soft roader look outweighs all of these factors I just cannot see why anyone would choose one over a similarly priced car.
Ok so back to your list - if you are dead set on having one of those three then I'd go for the Honda...at least it shouldn't break and... erm, well that's all I can think of really!