iCraig said:
It sounds like it was just a casual outing she had planned, but because you kept hounding her she probably decided to stay away.
Next time, try to relax.
Mate I barely mentioned it until the friday evening when she hadn't told me where it was.
On wednesday the conversation went like this:
Her: Would you like to take me to see a band on friday?
Me: Cool, who is it and where?
Then she told me all about the band etc then as she says shes going to bed
Her: I'll let you know all the details tomorrow, nite!
Thursday I was barely on at all said hello and told her I was about to go out and might not be on msn the next day because I was spending the day with a mate so it would probably be easiest if she dropped me an email.
Friday I came on the net briefly and the conversation went like this:
Her: Hey
Me: Hi, how are you?
Her: Good
Her: Do you still want to come out tonight?
Me: Yeah
Her: Good, Ill send you some songs.
Then she sent me some songs, asked me if I wanted to come a few more times and then I went out and she was supposed to message me the details.
I can't really see how that was 'hounding her' unless I was supposed to ignore her every time she asked until the last one, maybe throwing some mustard and stabbing her in the norks?
Edit: I'd like to add that she revealed that she had not been out in a week and a half in the evening because she wanted to stay and talk to me on msn, because she misses me when I'm not talking to her, and seemed a bit upset that I was going out on thursday.