Help with troublesome neighbour

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Would like some advice on a problem that is brewing between us and one of the flats below us. Basically our top floor flat straddles two others - one of the neighbours doesn't complain and the other one does.

Our flat has a roof terrace which is on top of the bedroom of the woman downstairs. She made complaints to us about walking too loudly on it and chairs scraping etc etc which we apologised for.

Then we came back one day and saw that some white tags had appeared lashing our bamboo screen to the railings which must have been flapping and making a noise in the wind. It seemed very clear that she'd gone onto our terrace via the stairwell that runs from outside her flat to ours, though we had no proof it was her and did nothing about it.

We received a couple more complaints from her over the last week or so asking us not to put bread out for the birds since the birds made a noise on the terrace and woke her up on the morning, which we agreed no longer to do. Now, today, I went onto the terrace and noticed that some 'coasters' had been Sellotaped to the bottom of our plastic furniture. Needless to say this got my goat and I banged on her door but she didn't answer. I therefore wrote her a letter saying that if I strongly suspected it was her and if I ever caught her on our terrace I'd report her to the council for trespassing.

The thing is, it could be no-one else but her who does this. She's complained quite a few times - no one else would have cause to sneak onto the terrace and do this. She's a 30/40-something single woman who seems to do nothing with her time except go to work and come home. She is the only person who has bought a flat in the block and treats the whole block as her own - keeping her gardening stuff by the front door, annoying other people and posting complaint notes on the communal front door when people forget to double lock it.

My questions is - is there anything else I can do about this? I'll see how she responds to the note but since we comply with everything, is there any other way to shut her up?
 
take the coasters of your furniture and set up a webcam to watch your terrace you record her doing it and report her when you got proof. i htink some one else posted about a neighbour like this they were complaining bout hearing thew op typing at night .
 
Business Man said:
its clear she's obviously not getting any sex and thats why she's being moody :p

maybe you should help her out lol





just setup a webcam and record her... job done

lol.. do you mean record her having sex with him or record her trespassing? ;)
 
Wireless webcam to be honest.

Also, a formal letter written to her, explaining the situation, with a carbon-copy reciept kept by you in case of future legal action.

Explain to her (in this letter) that you have a right to move around in a reasonable manner in your own home, and that if such movement disturbs her she should contact the owner of the building and direct him/her to improve soundproofing (I'm assuming you're renting here? If not find out whose responsibility it is to maintain the region between her ceiling and your floor). Mention the words 'harassment' somewhere in there when refering to her constant complaints - will come in handy if the dispute ever escalates.

The key thing is to keep tangible evidence of everything you do. Dispite the fact that she lives directly below you, send any formal letters by recorded delivery for proof of reciept.
 
Aargh neighbours from hell! I think she needs to get laid seriously, nothing else to do for her than get annoyed with neighbours. As long as you are within your rights, just ignore her. You are allowed to make noise, aren't you? As long as it's within limits, tell her to go **** herself and live your life. Perhaps that's what she needs to do...
 
Lysander said:
Our flat has a roof terrace which is on top of the bedroom of the woman downstairs. She made complaints to us about walking too loudly on it

How do you walk loudly? Charming neighbour :p
 
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