You know what I mean.
Basically what I'm saying is that those who are defending their homes/families should be cut more slack than they currently are when it comes to this. But not so much so that you can get away with shooting someone dead the second they set foot in your house.
I hear in thats what happens in south africa. Shoot the intruder on sight, then fire a shot into the roof, explain to the police that was your warning shot, job done.