Hi, need some advice

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wizard91 said:
Give it a rest, your a really late, its been delt with. Did you come here just looking to have a go at someone? What a hero you are, your a big man and you should feel proud.
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You've got a really serious attitude problem haven't you?

Perhaps rethink how you conduct yourself, then others may rethink how they choose to reply to your threads.
 
Well I did consider giving you some advise and crit on the shots, but since you really seem to have an attitude problem I don't think I will. Several members have already given you good advice (As they normally do), yet all you seem to do is give sarky and agressive comebacks. Id suggest you either slow down, take your time and reply courteously (which will result in much better responses by other members), or find this other forums of yours, although im not so sure they would appreciate your present attitude either. I am not having a go at you personally, simply your current attitude, so take this as simple advice.
 
I am thankfull to the people that gave me help, obviously, I am especially thankfull to Amp34 for his great post and he seems to be one of the few who didnt jump on the bandwagon, perhaps hes more mature than all of us.

But after its all done and delt with, I have had my questions awnsered and I have been told of about 6-7 times and I still get people comming in and giving me a hard time, just telling me the same things over and over, OK yes I get it, maybe I was a little impatient, maybe twenty three people genuinely couldent awnser my questions, but when people have a go at me for it, I am more than happy to defend myself, if that gives me an attitude problem then so be it. If you have a go at me, please do not expect a pleasant reply in return, its that simple.

I have no attitude problem, I think you are all making mountains out of a very small molehill.

This may sound rude, but really, I do not need nor want your help anymore, messiah khan.
 
Well, to be honest, you posted a fairly bland thread, then left a sarcy little edit when people had the gall to not reply to you at 1am. Then when someone (quite rightly) called you up on that, you got even more aggresive and haven't stopped it.

I think you need apologise to a few people to be quite honest. Myself not included really though I suppose.
 
wizard91; I honestly thought you may have been misread which is why I posted earlier. But I cannot believe your audacity?!? You clearly have an attitude problem and you have to take a step back, do we need a poll to decide if you are being rude?

I am truly amazed!
 
wizard91 said:
This may sound rude, but really, I do not need nor want your help anymore, messiah khan.
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Lol Messiah Kahn is one of the photographers on here which is fast rising and on his way to becoming a professional and you could learn A LOT from him to be honest.

Blocking him out is foolish.
 
divine_madness said:
Well, to be honest, you posted a fairly bland thread, then left a sarcy little edit when people had the gall to not reply to you at 1am. Then when someone (quite rightly) called you up on that, you got even more aggresive and haven't stopped it.

I think you need apologise to a few people to be quite honest. Myself not included really though I suppose.
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Your right my title is very poor, yes and it is bland. What I picked up on was, maybe it was 1am, but there were still twenty three people to view my thread, that is quite a high number considering no one posted and I was very tired, but still I was a little offended and the first impression of this forum wasnt great.

Obviously I was impatient where I shouldent ahve been and I shouldent have edited my seacond post. but if anyone was offended by my rudeness/impatience I appoligise for that..

There would only be one person in this thead that I would consider personally appoligising to, that is Helium_Junkie, everyone else can forget it, why would they deserve an appoligy for simply stating what has been said before by another poster, knowing that I have heard it all before not hoping to acomplish anything but agrovate me they are quite rightly going to get a snappy reply.

So Helium_Junkie I appoligise, I shouldent have been so aggresive in my reply.
Everyone else who jumped on the bandwagon, forget it.
 
wizard91 said:
Everyone else who jumped on the bandwagon, forget it.
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Then don't be surprised if they (they including some of the best photographers this forum has to offer, with the likes of MK and fstop) forget you.
 
Hey Johnny never did know when to stop so I will continue!

I don't want an apology from you because you simply do not get it. You seem to believe your a saint and that everyone is wrong compared to you.
You have come here and insulted several friends of mine when they are going out of their way to:
1. Help and assist you
2. Make you understand your mistake before you ruin about every chance of ever been welcome back here (still work in progress)

Believe me pal if you wanna progress in photography you want friends and contacts and thats exactly what your attitude isn't going to get you.

Let me just highlight something you said.

"23 people viewed my thread and did not reply at 1am and I was tired"

Guess what! It was 1am for 23 other people who probably were also tired! Thats EXACTLY why you haven't had a reply until morning.
I've posted at midnight before and not had anything till morning. Its a forum for members to come and go. No one is working here and getting paid to answer questions like a help desk.

Don't worry wizard91 if you feel this forum has given you a bad first impression because every member here has got a shared first impression of you I can promise you that.
 
Fstop11 said:
Hey Johnny never did know when to stop so I will continue!

I don't want an apology from you because you simply do not get it. You seem to believe your a saint and that everyone is wrong compared to you.
You have come here and insulted several friends of mine when they are going out of their way to:
1. Help and assist you
2. Make you understand your mistake before you ruin about every chance of ever been welcome back here (still work in progress)

Believe me pal if you wanna progress in photography you want friends and contacts and thats exactly what your attitude isn't going to get you.

Let me just highlight something you said.

"23 people viewed my thread and did not reply at 1am and I was tired"

Guess what! It was 1am for 23 other people who probably were also tired! Thats EXACTLY why you haven't had a reply until morning.
I've posted at midnight before and not had anything till morning. Its a forum for members to come and go. No one is working here and getting paid to answer questions like a help desk.

Don't worry wizard91 if you feel this forum has given you a bad first impression because every member here has got a shared first impression of you I can promise you that.
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No I have made some mistakes here, but this all started from one little sentance gone wrong, I still bileave people overreacted, I should have kept my mouth shut, I am stubborn its a bad character trait, obviously, I dont bileave im alone here though. So when there are 5+ people repetidly telling me the same thing I do get annoyed, I am not saying I am in the right, I was just defending myself, but I do not bileave anyone involved is a saint.
You are right that 23 other people could have been just as tired as I was, I was pointing out that if I wasnt tired and I was thinking correctly I wouldnet have edited my post, but still it was a minor mistake blown out of proportion.

I dont intend on staying in this photography forum obviously. I am probably missing out, but on the brighter side there are better forums out there, no offence meant.
 
...and that's more than plenty.

Feel free to start another thread looking for advice.
Leave the bickering for somewhere else, like the playground.
 
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