Yes - you said £5k was nothing to someone who was looking at 500k houses. I can speak from experience and say £5k hurts me just as much as it hurts everyone else - time to gather it together or opportunity cost of spending it elsewhere.
5k is nothing on a 500k house, that's 1%! If an extra 1% of your property price is something that hurts then it's clearly beyond the realms of affordable.
Stop undermining peoples hard work because you haven't experienced it.
Oh the irony. I've not long purchased my first home (end 2019) with my partner at the age of 29. And yes we rented prior to that as well, so yes i have been through the hard work of having to save whilst renting. I know that we've been in the fortunate position of both earning good salaries, and we were able to make some use of the FTB SDLT exemption - even though the price of the house meant we had to pay a little more in SDLT fees.
Which is exactly why i was questioning HACO's numbers, i know what sort of salary you'd need to get a 450k mortgage on a 500k house.
It'd be a completely different story if HACO said he'd inherited 300k, along with a 50k deposit they've been saving, and therefore needed a 150k mortgage for the 500k house. 5k would be a sizeable amount of money.