I’ve been through a few monitors in recent years and in the end I bit the bullet and went for an ASD. It’s the only one that has a really good quality chassis, sensible aspect ratio, built in cam, (not awful) speakers, and 5k res. It was very spendy but I know I’ll stick with it for a good decade or so.
I’m not really sure why the webcam gets so much hate in reviews. Perhaps I don’t have a good point of reference but it seems decent quality and the centre stage feature is a nice convenience to have.
As mentioned up thread, the height of the tilt stand is totally fine - I haven’t felt the need to raise or lower it all and neither has my wife who is a few inches shorter than me.