..is it just practice or do most people need/require lessons?
I'm quite a bit out of practice so feel kind of isolated and not very confident though I believe I can maintain/hold a rhythm. Thing is I'm out with the Mrs trying to dance, having only danced four times in the last ten years and an ugly retard of a person walks up to the Mrs and says you two look like you've got some "sexy" moves you'll have give me a few lessons, before being dragged away by a a mate. What are most other people's experiences?
On the last four occasions I've just knocked about four pints back and not given a hoot about what other people think and quite often you'll find us both on the dance floor with nobody else on it.
A natural dancer will always be able to spot the difference between a "natural" and someone who's had lessons.
A natural will just flow with the rhythm whereas someone who has been taught will have been taught step by step and you can see the timing on those steps. As in you can see the timing and time the next move in your head. 1,2,3,4,5 and repeat then move onto next learned routine.
Do what feels natural and look at some youtube videos for inspiration to freestyle your own moves. if you are trying to learn a routine it's so obvious and when you are doing it your face will give away concentration and focus rather than fun. it's why a lot of these dance groups on tv suck. anyone can do what they do with practice.