how do you guys do it?
- Thread starter Abraxaz1
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So why aren't you? Stop feeling sorry for yourself and man the **** up. You need to actively change yourself if you feel this way, instead of just moaning about it and moping around.
I'm sorry if this offends you, but it really is the best advice.
You no have a dog ??
Soldato
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Contact your friends, stop sitting around waiting for stuff to happen. Take control of your own life.
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I see my 6 step progam didn't bear any fruit.
1. Your life is terrible.
2. It'd be pretty great if it wasn't, so you should do something about that.
3. Be a better person and actually do things instead of moaning on a computer forum.
4. BE AWESOME.
Come on man, what do we have to do here? Change your life. Please.
1. Your life is terrible.
2. It'd be pretty great if it wasn't, so you should do something about that.
3. Be a better person and actually do things instead of moaning on a computer forum.
4. BE AWESOME.
Come on man, what do we have to do here? Change your life. Please.
You want to kill him? do not go near PoF.
Go out, get drunk and engage in coitus with a weight challenged girl. It sounds crude but it works. You just need a small confidence boost to stop the downward spiral.
I was thinking something like this. Join the military or reserves.
That could make things worse tbh! No point looking for someone to make you happy - you need to be happy in yourself first.
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You dont have to be good to play sports but you will get better in time and there's far more teams sports then those two.
Everyone has up and down days but it gets to the point where you have to snap out of it. Only you can change your life, no one else. (not saying that rudely btw) As plenty of others have said, get in contact with old friends or maybe go to a couple of motor meets and make new ones. Stick with the gym as the exercise will release the happy hormones and you'll start to feel more confident. 
Find a hobby instead of "wasting time in front of the computer." Set yourself little goals. If you achieve one give yourself a small reward.
I wouldnt worry about finding a Gf until you've sorted things out, otherwise if it goes wrong it will just set you back again.(I speak from experience!)
Maybe if you're really that down go and speak to someone professionally. Trust me it really does help. now get off the pc and go enjoy the life you've been blessed with
Find a hobby instead of "wasting time in front of the computer." Set yourself little goals. If you achieve one give yourself a small reward.
I wouldnt worry about finding a Gf until you've sorted things out, otherwise if it goes wrong it will just set you back again.(I speak from experience!)
Maybe if you're really that down go and speak to someone professionally. Trust me it really does help. now get off the pc and go enjoy the life you've been blessed with
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Caporegime
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GET A NICE GF YOU DONT NEED YOUR OWN FRIENDS OR INTERESTS/
SOCIAL CRAP.
It'd be funny if it weren't so tragic.
As Magnolia says, this is awful advice. I bet you're one of those selfish tools who dumps all of his mates when they have a girlfriend, but come back crying like a child when it all goes wrong and then expect to carry on as if nothing ever happened.
Volleyball. When I was at college I joined a local amateur volleyball team which was affiliated with a community sports club. We played lots of different teams and I made some good mates in the process.
Best part is, you don't need to be a burly chap to play volleyball; I'm 5 foot 6 and built like a green tree frog.