Hardly comparable to a proper relationship is it, he didn't say he's desperate to get his rocks off...
How does a guy like this get a girl like that?
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Hardly comparable to a proper relationship is it, he didn't say he's desperate to get his rocks off...
Ah you mean pay for it.....Well no, as I would never just do that just for the sake of it, because whats the point in that, thats just totally pointless, or it is to me anyway. Anyway its not about the sex for me, thats the icing on the cake that you get either in a relationship, or you fancy the pants off someone..lolHardly comparable to a proper relationship is it, he didn't say he's desperate to get his rocks off...
A ok film to see though, is "me before you". Its about this guy gets paralyzed from the neck down from a road accident and his parents employees this woman to try to cheer him up and she falls in loves with him afer few months.. I dont think its all that sad, but most say its very sad.
But I would like to think, who ever gets there claws into me, I am the most unique, kind, thoughtful and caring guy that they have been in a relationship with, as I not a typical guy who's just after 1 thing. Plus Im a soppy sod too..hehe
Edit: So yeah god guys, sooo bloody what if someone is disabled, they still have a hell of a lot to give someone to make them feel special and wanted....And I would like to think this counts for most disabled people and would treat every relationship like its their last. Because we dont have many chances of happiness in our lifetime with the opposite sex.....
But I would like to think, who ever gets there claws into me, I am the most unique, kind, thoughtful and caring guy that they have been in a relationship with, as I not a typical guy who's just after 1 thing. Plus Im a soppy sod too..hehe
Edit: So yeah god guys, sooo bloody what if someone is disabled, they still have a hell of a lot to give someone to make them feel special and wanted....And I would like to think this counts for most disabled people and would treat every relationship like its their last. Because we dont have many chances of happiness in our lifetime with the opposite sex.....
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A Prostitute. It's a viable option you know. I actually already knew you're a wheelchair user, and i offered you the courtesy to treat you the same as everyone else and not treat you with kid gloves in my replies. And sorry (not sorry) to tell you this mate but despite your rant, the likelihood that this girl hasn't some sort of fetish is extraordinary low. Especially seeing how severe his disability is and knowing a fair bit more about real life and women than yourself.
Abled bodied and wheelchair user relationships happen all the time. In fact, i find this couple completely believable because how they met actually happened via his YouTube as doing a favour for her via a friend at first then they started to date after
So it can happen and you have to leave that mentality that you're limited to a wheelchair behind you. I may be able to walk, but when i get this old i've learnt something, everyone has something. And most of the time it's well hidden. We all have challenges in life and we all have to overcome them.
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Don't get drawn into other people's fantasies. It's just a fictional movie written by an abled bodied woman. Look at real-world examples like the one i posted. We all get limited chances at real happiness
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How does she fullfill her sexual needs?
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Just look at the picture, that's enough.
He's basically a regular guy, just wearing square clothes and making a goofy expression. That does not equal incel.
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Nearly every man can get laid - it's just that some have to pay for it.Yep me too... But then again half the mods are probably in the same boat with similar opinions of women and a similar inability to get laid.
Oh so you don't know Allen? I don't know where I stand with you man, you're sending me mixed signals
Most guys wont get this, but I would prefer never getting laid, then just getting laid for the sake of it.
But I still think dating another disabled person would be harder than dating a abled person, just because there not many about and Im certainly not going to date the first one that I see, because its all about attraction at the end of the day. And I can totally see why a able person wont be attracted to a disabled person and thats just from the look of the person and not the wheelchair, ect. But saying that theres some pretty unattractive able people about aswel and I wouldnt say I am unattractive, as I have got a few "come ons" over the years from women, but my shyness always got the better of me and I never pursued them..... Basically women walk into my life and than back out again because of my s**tty shyness,, but hopefully from now onwards, thats all going to change.
But I still think dating another disabled person would be harder than dating a abled person, just because there not many about and Im certainly not going to date the first one that I see, because its all about attraction at the end of the day. And I can totally see why a able person wont be attracted to a disabled person and thats just from the look of the person and not the wheelchair, ect. But saying that theres some pretty unattractive able people about aswel and I wouldnt say I am unattractive, as I have got a few "come ons" over the years from women, but my shyness always got the better of me and I never pursued them..... Basically women walk into my life and than back out again because of my s**tty shyness,, but hopefully from now onwards, thats all going to change.
Yup, after she saw him in a documentary (he was already a public speaker etc..) and now they have a youtube channel together etc...
The point of that recent bump was the headline and way we treat this stuff... as though we're not surprised at this sort of relationship, the fact is it is odd/unusual, it's not surprising that people would assume she was his carer or a relative. I'm not sure why that seems to generate some ranting/moral outrage from some posters but this guy's experience likely isn't typical at all for someone in his position, he's rather fortunate to have found her (or had her contact him) and it is very much an odd pairing.
There might well be some Florence Nightingale type effect going on... they have a big following on youtube, have become internet celebrities and she's generally going to be looked at as a really nice/kind "good" person etc..
I imagine the thread was about some 60 year old overweight western guy and a 20yr old Thai girl, I doubt we'd get any virtue signaling like this:
Now I don't agree with mocking anyone for their disability, but I don't think that is what people are doing here in general. I don't see why an unusual relationship like this wouldn't generally cause a few obvious questions.
Happy hunting! Confidence is very, very important when it comes to attracting women. More so than physical appearance. Or so I've heard anyway - I've always been completely clueless
Happy hunting! Confidence is very, very important when it comes to attracting women. More so than physical appearance. Or so I've heard anyway - I've always been completely clueless
There was some weird guy on here who got banned after posting some disturbing video clips of himself approaching random women in the street... he wasn't exactly lacking confidence in those clips (quite the opposite, his approaches were utterly brazen and out of the blue) but all he managed to do was scare these poor women as he came across as super creepy... Confidence isn't everything, it's just one aspect.
There was some weird guy on here who got banned after posting some disturbing video clips of himself approaching random women in the street... he wasn't exactly lacking confidence in those clips (quite the opposite, his approaches were utterly brazen and out of the blue) but all he managed to do was scare these poor women as he came across as super creepy... Confidence isn't everything, it's just one aspect.
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There was some weird guy on here who got banned after posting some disturbing video clips of himself approaching random women in the street... he wasn't exactly lacking confidence in those clips (quite the opposite, his approaches were utterly brazen and out of the blue) but all he managed to do was scare these poor women as he came across as super creepy... Confidence isn't everything, it's just one aspect.
If you are born and end up looking like the guy on the right what do you do with your life? Genuine question, many incels have just been given unfortunate looks and will live miserable lives. How can we eradicate this?
Pretty sure if that guy was confident, outgoing and friendly he would find someone. Probably not a 10/10, but someone. I've seen some people who are pretty damn ugly fall in love and settle down.
As far as your last sentence, I'm not sure, but I don't think it's a question that I or anyone else really needs to answer. It's not society's responsibility to help people get laid.
I think Hannah and Shane are awesome people, and their vids are the first vids I have watched with disabled people in, as I dont like being reminded of me, yeah Im nowhare as disabled as Shane, but still.. I dont know if that makes me shallow or not?