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Nefarious

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I met up with a friend over the weekend and they introduced me to a few people. I got on very well with everyone but... two of the people there were a couple. I got on VERY well with one of them and we exchanged numbers. They had flirted with me the whole day to the point where their boyfriend was ****** off and then I started receiving text messages which left nothing to the imagination.

I asked what exactly was going on and was told that she was happy to do things behind her partner's back. I said I wasn't and yet I'm still getting messages. If this is the way they behave then they're clearly not relationship material in the first place so would it be making the situation that much worse...?

I'm fairly certain that I shouldn't do it but morally I'm not totally sure that it would be necessarily 'wrong' if I did....
 
Depends how much you value the other members in the group to be fair. If they are mainly his friends and they find out you nailed her....
 
Back off - you don't know what trouble you could start. Seriously, leave it alone and stick your meat somewhere else.. there's no way it can end well.
 
I know it must be tempting to get a free shag, but think about it if you were the guy. Tell her to break it off if she wants you, else hit the road.
 
Stay well away as previously posted mate

Only going to cause trouble, and could get nasty

P.S - Token 'TTIUWP'
 
how well do you know, or they know the others in your group.

if not well then its her boyfriends look out not yours.
 
I tried backing off and saying that I didn't feel right about the situation and that hasn't stopped me receiving messages...

The other quandry is - if I don't do anything, should I tell her other half?
 
Would you want it done to you? think how it'l make her B/F feel, having been in his situation, or one your willing to put him in its not nice. I can guarentee you'l loose a lot of friends and i'l bet money he'l bring you a fist full. If your happy to do that then by all means go ahead, but IMO it doesnt make you a very nice/good person.

Wait for them to split before you do anything, but dont break them up just so you get some sideways exercise.
 
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Nah, but really... stay away
 
Benny06 said:
Would you want it done to you? think how it'l make her B/F feel, having been in his situation, or one your willing to put him in its not nice. I can guarentee you'l loose a lot of friends and i'l bet money he'l bring you a fist full. If your happy to do that then by all means go ahead, but IMO it doesnt make you a very nice/good person.

Wait for them to split before you do anything, but dont break them up just so you get some sideways exercise.
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I remember a situation like this at college, except when the boyfriend found out and he attempted to beat the other guy up, he got his nose broken.

What a loser :p

Anyway, leave it alone, nothing to do with morals, more because she sounds like filth. Unless thats what you are after......
 
Okay, it seems that most of us agree that I should leave well alone but...

Where do I go from here? I'm still getting messages and get the strong feeling that if it's not me it'll be someone else - should I send a friendly warning and how do I fob her off?
 
Nefarious said:
Okay, it seems that most of us agree that I should leave well alone but...

Where do I go from here? I'm still getting messages and get the strong feeling that if it's not me it'll be someone else - should I send a friendly warning and how do I fob her off?
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"leave me alone you filthy ****" should do it, come on mate, use your imagination!
 
Depth said:
I remember a situation like this at college, except when the boyfriend found out and he attempted to beat the other guy up, he got his nose broken.

What a loser :p

Anyway, leave it alone, nothing to do with morals, more because she sounds like filth. Unless thats what you are after......
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Why is it that the guy gets a beatin, the girl in question might never have told him that she had a BF. I say blame the girl
 
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