"To avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing"...
I think it's very important for all photographers, both good and bad, to never lose perspective on their work.
Personally, and overall, I'm a fan of Raymond's work and style. But, even I don't click on every thread I see him post now, because I almost know what I'll see. I thought his 'wedding thread' was also a little too self congratulatory, and was in danger of becoming an advert! But anyway...
By showing our photographs to others, we invite comment, criticism and adulation (I don't get much of the latter!) whether we want it or not. I think that once a photographer can't take any criticism for what it is, ie free, and either valuable to you or not, then you're well on the way to losing the plot...
Professional arrogance is one of the worst kinds IMO. (and no Raymond, as you've taken a few things the wrong way in this thread, I'm not describing you!
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The top wedding guys in the UK (and I've met a couple), earn six figure salaries doing what they love, but they tell me they never ever stop learning and take all feedback the same, wherever it comes from, and treat it as a welcome reality check. Getting defensive is something they told me had to be got over very quickly, because at some point in the future, a client is going to tell you that they aren't happy with what you've produced. What are you going to do then?
As a part time wedding photog myself (and a fallible, insecure one at that!), but with a 'proper job' as well, I know what skill and effort is required to deliver a wedding set, and the photography is actually a smaller part of it than most people would think! The time between handing the wedding album over, and getting the feedback from the bride and groom is regularly the worst few hours/days of my life. It's true that photographers are their own harshest critics (usually!), but it's equally true that I've never met any who think they have nothing more to learn. However misconstrued and misguided you think somebodys comments may be (including from folks with a low post count...), if you can't see ANY learning anywhere in it, then it's probably time to sit down and have a think.
Best of luck to you Raymond, but I would urge you to conduct yourself with dignity and grace whatever happens on here or elsewhere. Don't forget that some potential clients may be watching on too...
I think it's very important for all photographers, both good and bad, to never lose perspective on their work.
Personally, and overall, I'm a fan of Raymond's work and style. But, even I don't click on every thread I see him post now, because I almost know what I'll see. I thought his 'wedding thread' was also a little too self congratulatory, and was in danger of becoming an advert! But anyway...
By showing our photographs to others, we invite comment, criticism and adulation (I don't get much of the latter!) whether we want it or not. I think that once a photographer can't take any criticism for what it is, ie free, and either valuable to you or not, then you're well on the way to losing the plot...
Professional arrogance is one of the worst kinds IMO. (and no Raymond, as you've taken a few things the wrong way in this thread, I'm not describing you!

The top wedding guys in the UK (and I've met a couple), earn six figure salaries doing what they love, but they tell me they never ever stop learning and take all feedback the same, wherever it comes from, and treat it as a welcome reality check. Getting defensive is something they told me had to be got over very quickly, because at some point in the future, a client is going to tell you that they aren't happy with what you've produced. What are you going to do then?
As a part time wedding photog myself (and a fallible, insecure one at that!), but with a 'proper job' as well, I know what skill and effort is required to deliver a wedding set, and the photography is actually a smaller part of it than most people would think! The time between handing the wedding album over, and getting the feedback from the bride and groom is regularly the worst few hours/days of my life. It's true that photographers are their own harshest critics (usually!), but it's equally true that I've never met any who think they have nothing more to learn. However misconstrued and misguided you think somebodys comments may be (including from folks with a low post count...), if you can't see ANY learning anywhere in it, then it's probably time to sit down and have a think.
Best of luck to you Raymond, but I would urge you to conduct yourself with dignity and grace whatever happens on here or elsewhere. Don't forget that some potential clients may be watching on too...
