I'm really sorry but it's a girl thread, just need to vent

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I'm in a really bad mood over this, so anyone who cares to read and tell me to shut up and get over it please do. BTW i'm 20 yrs old.

My girlfriend Charlotte broke up with me a few months ago, we were together for 3 years, so obviously i'm feeling a little rejected right now. Anyway, the actual story which is about a different girl, this is just background info.

Basically when I was about 10 i met this girl called Augusta (not to be mistaken for Augustas Gloop from Charlie and the Chocolate Facotry) and I have know her all through secondry school, although we were never really close friends, just knew each other and always fancied each other, but nothing ever happened. She always rejected me whenever i asked her out in my early teens, apparently she was scared or something.

Anyway, the other week she texts me out of the blue and starts striking up conversation which then led to looooong chats on MSN. She kept saying things like "how come we never got together" (of course I didnt reply with "because you always said no you dumb ****") anyway we were getting on really well,and she seemed much nicer than i rememebr, so we arranged to meet up tomorrow. She was making out that it was a date and that she wanted to get to know me better, especially as she is back from uni in April and perhaps see how things go between us, which came as a bit of shock to me but i went along with it.

Anyway, last night on MSN she went all weird, said she had a text from her ex. I just said "well if you don't want to meet up thats fine". She said "its ok i still want to see you, he is just drunk and texting me"

Anyway, today she texts me and says "Really sorry, not sure how to say this but i cant see you tomorrow night"
To which i reply - "well thats a pretty good way of saying it. Do you want to rearrange or do you not want to see me at all?"
She then says - "I don't know, its just really bad timing, i have problems with my ex. I am really sorry, im not trying to be a bitch"

So i then just ignored her. I havent heard anything else from her, she hasnt been on MSN and im really ****** off about it, because im fed up of stuff like this.

Anyway, sorry for the rant. My initial thought, all along really but obviously especially now, was that she was just messing me around and leading me on. Maybe she does just have problems (or maybe sorted things out) with her ex. So yeah. Thanks for letting me vent. bye
 
Hmmmm, i dont know how long ago she broke up with him. But you are probably right, just after attention. I know im still on the rebound which probably doesnt help the situation
 
Sorry mate whats the problem here?

The lass is having problems with her ex, for the love of god dont go there as it will just end **** up, just find a girl who is decent.

If anything can materilises from this then just nail her and have fun.

KaHn
 
I didnt know she had a recent ex until she told me on MSN. So i didnt know, 'onest guv'nor!

I know she is messing me about, but as i said needed other peoples opinions and to vent :)

KaHn said:
just find a girl who is decent.


KaHn


I wish it was that easy :(
 
Ignore her and rock the **** out with friends... Makes me feel so much better!

Good luck fella :)
 
ScarySquirrel said:
Hmmmm, i dont know how long ago she broke up with him. But you are probably right, just after attention. I know im still on the rebound which probably doesnt help the situation

Agree with you there. You and her both looking for something out of nothing, revisiting the past? I'm just guessing here.
 
Well as you have found brutally out, women can be absolute selfish *****, as can men, but in the case of romance you have to be out for you and you alone.

She may just wanted help gettin over this and thought you would be easy (girls know when you've just broke up with ex's, its like guys gaydar), you should carefully offer your services.

"Hey I know your having trouble with your ex, but if you want to talk I'm always here"

or something along those lines, she should get the message :D

KaHn
 
KaHn said:
just find a girl who is decent.


KaHn

come off it Kahn, a girls who decent? whats decent in your eyes? everybody you will find will have issues of some sort... no matter how nice, just because she cant meet him doesnt mean shes not decent.

-Neon.
 
KaHn said:
"Hey I know your having trouble with your ex, but if you want to talk I'm always here"

or something along those lines, she should get the message :D

KaHn

Hmmm, i have another friend who says dont contact her, just leave it. So you think i should go down the nice route? Ill send her a nice text now then.
 
be there for her!!

she'll appreciate it mate honestly.

if she knows your interested still shes not going anywhere yet, she still knows your there, where if you block her she'd be like "he doesnt actually care about my feelings" etc etc.
 
Neon said:
come off it Kahn, a girls who decent? whats decent in your eyes? everybody you will find will have issues of some sort... no matter how nice, just because she cant meet him doesnt mean shes not decent.

-Neon.

Neon, give it a rest, decent is a matter of opinion, to you it maybe a lass with two heads who cheats on you. To me it isn't.

A girl who ***** around with me isn't decent imo, and in all honesty if she did I would only look at giving her on and then buggering off.

KaHn
 
Neon, give it a rest, decent is a matter of opinion, to you it maybe a lass with two heads who cheats on you. To me it isn't.

A girl who ***** around with me isn't decent imo, and in all honesty if she did I would only look at giving her on and then buggering off.

KaHn

give what a rest the fact that if he ignores her, he gonna lose a mate aswell, its always good to stay close to them instead of not at all, how isnt she decent, at the end of the day if she doesnt want a relationship, they can both stay friends....
 
ScarySquirrel said:
Hmmm, i have another friend who says dont contact her, just leave it. So you think i should go down the nice route? Ill send her a nice text now then.

Mate it all depends on what you want.

KaHn
 
ScarySquirrel said:
She just text back..

"Thanks hun, you're such a lovely lovely guy x x"

hmm, i might just text back "i know"

No no no!

KaHn

/edit:- dont listen to neon, just dont text any thing!
 
She just text back..

"Thanks hun, you're such a lovely lovely guy x x"

hmm, i might just text back "i know"

dont you even dare... !!

txt back:

"No problem, Any time."
 
Neon said:
give what a rest the fact that if he ignores her, he gonna lose a mate aswell, its always good to stay close to them instead of not at all, how isnt she decent, at the end of the day if she doesnt want a relationship, they can both stay friends....

Since when was she ever a mate? She texted him out of the blue as she wanted attention, hes giving her that and she's loving it.

I still stand by my move to hit it and get on with your life.

KaHn
 
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