I'm really sorry but it's a girl thread, just need to vent

Neoni · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:49

i have MSN, i have issues like yours kinda if you would like to chat about it more

[email protected]

could do with someone to chat to aswell

-Neon.

KaHn · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:50

Right im just going to watch this now for the,

"oh i've decided to give it another go with my boyfriend, thanks for talking to me. Heres a cookie"

KaHn

Nikias · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:50

KaHn said:
Since when was she ever a mate? She texted him out of the blue as she wanted attention, hes giving her that and she's loving it.

I still stand by my move to hit it and get on with your life.

KaHn

Indeed. Although I probably wouldn't hit it.

Squirrel should have used the "i know" comment; it's wonderfully Han Soloish and awesome.

Raymond Lin · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:52

Neon said:
be there for her!!

she'll appreciate it mate honestly.

if she knows your interested still shes not going anywhere yet, she still knows your there, where if you block her she'd be like "he doesnt actually care about my feelings" etc etc.

And be in the Friends Zone before you can say "Is that where i am?"

PardonTheWait · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:52

KaHn said:
No no no!

KaHn

/edit:- dont listen to neon, just dont text any thing!

Doormat tbh innit

BrenOS · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:53

*Bangs head on desk*

You've totally put yourself in the friend zone with those texts.

ScarySquirrel · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:53

Too many conflicting opinions lol, although some funny responses.

Im happy going with the nice comment... To be honest, i dont think i could have hit it, not being able to meet up with her obiously being the first hurdle that i would stumble on.

Cheers for the comments guys, made me laugh

KaHn · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:54

Mohinder said:
Doormat tbh innit

You know it, offer your support and I was supprised she texted back so soon, but now you sound desperate and leave your self open for doormattage.

If you didnt text anything she would be open to contact you then, if she did you would know she was interested, then you could move towards your goal.

Either hitting it or a relationship if you gave it more time.

KaHn

BrenOS · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:54

You should have gone with your initial "Yeah I know" response. I see potential in you

ScarySquirrel · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:55

BrenOS said:
You should have gone with your initial "Yeah I know" response. I see potential in you

haha....

Neoni · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:55

well if he has put himself in the "friendzone" isnt that better being like that than not being anything? i think so, friendship can always become more.

KaHn · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:55

ScarySquirrel said:
Too many conflicting opinions lol, although some funny responses.

Im happy going with the nice comment... To be honest, i dont think i could have hit it, not being able to meet up with her obiously being the first hurdle that i would stumble on.

Cheers for the comments guys, made me laugh

You've heard of a train/bus/car? Seriously distance is only a minor hurdle.

KaHn

KaHn · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:56

Neon said:
well if he has put himself in the "friendzone" isnt that better being like that than not being anything? i think so, friendship can always become more.

Dude you have no idea. And I will be harsh and class you as a typical door matt.

KaHn

ScarySquirrel · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:57

KaHn said:
You've heard of a train/bus/car? Seriously distance is only a minor hurdle.

KaHn

its not the seeing her thats the problem, its whether she consents to it

She only lives 10 mins walk away

Neoni · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:57

KaHn, neither do you thanks a lot... i am in the same situation as him, and its working fine for me, what do you know?

look its better for him to be there for her, to be not there at all for her, she can try it on and try and use him but he needs to make sure she aint falling back onto him

KaHn · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:59

Neon said:
KaHn, neither do you thanks a lot... i am in the same situation as him, and its working fine for me, what do you know?

Ok matt, hope it works out for you.

KaHn

ScarySquirrel · 4 Apr 2006 at 00:59

uh oh, dont argue guys. Just wanted a slap in the face thats all

Thanks for the advice everyone

BrenOS · 4 Apr 2006 at 01:00

It works to some extent when you're 18. It's hard to give advice here, as they're usually just young whippersnappers.

ScarySquirrel · 4 Apr 2006 at 01:01

BrenOS said:
It works to some extent when you're 18. It's hard to give advice here, as they're usually just young whippersnappers.

21 in June

woohoo

Neoni · 4 Apr 2006 at 01:01

Ok matt, hope it works out for you.

maybe it will, maybe it wont who knows? i say **** girls strange creatures..

lets all turn gay