In a right pickle :-(

[Things change I've changed]

New girl moves in above me, guy living in front flat obviously likes her and starts hanging with her, fine, not interested, then he ends up being an idiot and gets aggressive with her and she doesn't see him anymore, she then knocks on my door looking for company, I thought ok, I'm branching out a bit, I'll at least chill with her for a bit, but then move on a couple of months and things have become super intense, I've told her not really looking for anything serious, slow things down etc but that doesn't seem to be inputting into her head.

Tomorrow shes cooking me this big meal and honestly feel like I can't breath, shes a sweet girl but I'm just not interested on the that level, to be fair there have been a few times I should have probably said no but I didn't, I kinda felt sorry for her, she was going through some tough stuff at work and other things and I didn't really mind just chilling and helping her through some stuff but she's obviously read into it the wrong way.

**** being sociable seriously, I mix with the natives and this crap happens, really don't know what to do as she's living above me and it just seems 'all or nothing' with her, I wouldn't mind being just casual friends with her but I'm not sure that's possible.

 

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NO HOTLINKING!

 

[Musty Pie]

See what you posted in your OP

Say that to her.

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[Efour]

"Nothing" it is then if you want nothing.

"im not interested in you that way but i like your friendship so please don't get confused."

Write it on a bit of paper if you struggle to say it

 

[G|mp]

Is she stealing your broadband?

 

[d_brennen]

Maybe get super aggressive with her? Worked for the last chap. Do you own any rabbits that could be in danger?

 

[BigChief]

If you want rid, do what the other guy did, that seemed to work right? JK

Before she it goes far too far for her you need to explain that you don't have feelings for her other than her friendship, which you do enjoy.

 

[grimm]

I thought you didn't like girls in that way anyway? or at least had some sort of gender identity issues or something of that nature?

 

[wingman]

she then knocks on my door looking for company, I thought ok, I'm branching out a bit

Love this bit. Would read again. In a Karl Pilkington voice.

 

[[FnG]magnolia]

I mix with the natives and this crap happens.

Also, everything you typed:

 

[StevieP]

**** being sociable seriously, I mix with the natives and this crap happens.

Don't love this bit, have no idea who talks like this, wouldn't read again.

 

[[FnG]magnolia]

Maybe get super aggressive with her? Worked for the last chap. Do you own any rabbits that could be in danger?

Why don't I know what this means!

 

[Morba]

I don't understand. If you don't want her close then stop being close. Don't go for the meal, tell her not to do it.

Man up!

 

[Cosimo]

Just tell her your other girlfriend is pregnant.

 

[Davey_Pitch]

Why don't I know what this means!

You seriously don't know about why his rabbits could be in danger?

 

[Davey_Pitch]

Just tell her your other girlfriend is pregnant.

And the father is the other bloke in the building. She'll be so confused she won't know what to do with herself.

 

[jmc007]

Sounds good, could be the one LR.
All the very best with it.

 

[shaank]

pics, obviously, otherwise GD can't give out the best advice.

 

[[FnG]magnolia]

I would watch this film.

 

[wingman]

I imagine she's not very attractive but OP fancied a bit anyway.

No shame in it.